my ex is now going out with my ex best friend and hes going 2 be going 2 her school.this is totally breaking my heart. wat do i do?and i think he cheated on me with her. i told him about the unwritten girl rule that girls never go out with friends exs but he doesnt care and says im jealous. pls tell me wat 2 do.ps. hes in one of my classes at school.
2007-03-10 10:51:38 · 16 answers · asked by Debbie / Devil { R.U } 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
omg the same thing happened to me.. have you tried talking to her about it? If she is just going to go out with him, when she knows it hurts you, and hes willing to do the same thing, then neither of them are worth it. believe me, it took me awhile to learn that, but it's the truth
2007-03-10 10:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch, that must hurt a bit.
You cannot tell him, or her, what to do, after all they lead their own lives, but if they had any consideration for your feelings they would not be doing what they are doing, it is very unfair on you.
Can you try and explain that you're not jealous, but you have relationships with both of them and you find the situation you are in at the moment difficult because of what you and your ex, and your old mate, have been thru.
I know how you feel, my ex gf dumped me to go out with my best m8, and they were actually cheating on me! I just put it behind me and thought was it worth losing friendships over an ex?
2007-03-10 10:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Cookie_Monster_UK 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to make him jealous right back. He is
totally wrong to go out with her in the first place. When you 2 r in the class that you have together, flirt with who ever you can find!!! Unless you have a boyfriend, then everytime you see him you should be all over your boyfriend!!! Just don't let him get to you.
2007-03-10 10:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by u_wish_214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes diggin your EX best friend and doesnt care that it bothers you, I wouldnt worry about him, he sounds like a normal irrisponciable teen.
That may hurt and seem a little unconsierate, but if he really doesnt care how you feel and thinks your 'just jelious' hes not worth my time. I wouldnt fret over it.
2007-03-10 11:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will be a lesson for you, this is why many companies do not allow you to date fellow employee's. You will have to get along, if you show them it bothers you they will rub it in your face. Just let it be and tell them they look good together and after a few week maybe a month they will be over too.
2007-03-10 10:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by tman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am sorry to tell u but u can't do anything about it. He sounds like an *** to me so i would say move on and let him be...u don't need a guy like that in ur life anyways, or a friend like that.
2007-03-10 11:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is time to get over it and find somebody else. I remember back to high school and all the things you think really matter dont worry more about your school work than your extra curricular activities
2007-03-10 10:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Belgrademitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that he was your ex, and she was your ex friend. Just let it be, neither of them are in you life anymore. As far as school goes, be a lady and let it be. If he knows it bothers you, and he will throw it in for face just to get you to react in a way that would look bad on you. LET IT RIDE!!!
2007-03-10 10:56:45 · answer #8 · answered by onefinesacaman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let it go. Its not like you have the right to tell him what to do, because your not dating him anymore. Try moving on and finding a better boyfriend this time. Good Luck
2007-03-10 10:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by beyondthelimit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going to provide you my factor on conserving hands. i'm going to have intercourse with a guy yet conserving hands to me is extra intimate. It relies upon on the guy each now and then it may mean not something to a guy different it may mean a hollow lot extra. What different strikes or issues does he do to tutor he cares?
2016-10-01 22:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋