My wife cheated on me and got pregnant . She said it just happened . her is a mother of three smart collage grad and did not think of any of this when see was having sex with her boss how is 20 years older. then she tells me the sex was'nt the good . Ladys tell me why
2007-03-10 10:47:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you should go back and ask more questions.I don't think you have all the answers yet. It never just happens. She must have been thinking about it before.Both of you are need to do some major talking and see what you are thinking. You have kids so keep them in mind. You both should keep an open mind and listen to each others concerns.You are the one that is going to have to be patient cause she is going to say things that will stay with you for along time.Listen to her and decide if it's worth saving. Listen to her and see if she wants to save it.
2007-03-10 10:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jeez, my wife cheated too and boy do I sympathize. This is gonna be hard, but when you deal with her try to downplay the emotional impact. You have a right to feel hurt, but this entire event is about her and her own weaknesses. You have a right to choose not to participate in the raising of this new baby, thats really between her and her boss. Let her know that you are rooting for her to become the person she always imagined she could be, and step back and take a hard look at things and where you stand. Take care.
2007-03-10 10:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all who cares if the cheating sex was any good or not thats not the point! Second of all sex doesnt "just happen" I mean come on now! What a cop out! Worst of all it sounds like she has no regrets about it either. RUN! RUN! RUN!
2007-03-10 10:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by llovebug101l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her. By having unprotected sex, she was carelessly risking her health and yours if she was having unprotected sex with you as well. If she wants to risk her own life that's her business, but she has no right to risk yours. There are too many diseases out there to play fast and loose. If she did it once, she will probably do it again.
2007-03-10 10:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave her why would u want someone who had sex with their boss and got pregnant?
2007-03-10 10:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell no I'm leave her you may catch something a whore is not a wife.............get you a real woman
2007-03-10 10:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by sexsired 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wasn't getting satisfied at home??
2007-03-10 10:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by gr33n 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋