ok i like these two girls... (im a bi girl) and i like one of them more... and im not sure if shes bi tho... on the other hand the other girl i like is bi... but she dosnt know that i know shes bi... how can i first of all hang out with the girl i like more who im not sure is bi... cuz i get really nervouse and dont know what to say...
and what can i do to get the other girl, who i know for sure is bi, to like me?
2007-03-10 10:28:33 · 4 answers · asked by i am the one and only me 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
maybe u should find out if the first girl u liek better is bi or les..cuz if not, u wont get her. the girl who IS bi tho, be friendly with her first, and if it seems that she likes you, ask her out! good luck!
2007-03-10 10:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by aLeX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try and find out if the girl you like more is bi or not before you go on and try and make another girl like you, that's going to create alot of drama.
If you want to find out if she is bisexual or not, ask around. Ask her friends if she has a boyfriend, if they say no ask if she is straight or bi, it's not going to hurt anything.
As for the other girl, You can't "MAKE" anyone like you. Just hang out, go to the mall or the movies. the park or something and just hang out, if she likes you, she'll let it be known some way.
Don't go after both girls at once, it wont turn out good... trust me... The last thing you need is two girls fighting over you or hating you altogether.
Good Luck! If you need any advice and you have messenger you can send me a message... purely_numb_12.2007 or you can email me at m3gan1201@snowboarding2.com
2007-03-10 19:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by »ŘªīńВŏŵ•Öf•Ρřįđę« 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if the girl u like more is really bi and then if she is get 2 know her! but if she isnt just become friends with the girl and get 2 know her better mabey then u will b able 2 ask her out becuz u r more comfortable!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-10 18:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by itsjstme2323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! Peter Piper Picked A Patch of Pickled Peppers!!!!! 1st of all you want low maintenance and noooooo confusion!!!!! Know what you want for sure before you give out any demands. Pick the one who #1 DOES NOT HAVE A BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND.>>> . #2 MAKE SURE YOU AREN'T JEOPARDIZING HER OR YOUR SELF. #3. GET YOUR MIND RIGHT. >>>>MAKE SURE THERE IS A CLEAR UNDERSTANDING ON WHAT IT IS YOU ARE LOOKING FOR, BECAUSE NOONE DESERVES TO GET HURT. After all that you should be happy!!! Get'cha Mind Right and Handle Business and Enjoy!!!
2007-03-10 19:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by mocharvelous1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋