(everyone plese answer)Is there such a thing called love?

Question

Personally I don't think so, I personally think men and women get together for every reason other then love. Men and women don't love or even like each other, they love what they can get from each other. IE, men want sex from women and women want money from men, so in the scheme of things men are johns and women are hoes. If you don't believe me then just see how long a man will stay with a women who doesn't have sex with him, probably not longer then a week. And think about how many women would stay with a man with out a job or money, probably 0%. The truth is all relationships are is just a transaction between sex and money and nothing more. Why do you think relationships and marriages don't last as long these days? Cause women now are making enough money where as they don't need men for financial security, and sex is so much more available to men that they no longer need to be monogamous with women for sex. I think marriage is unhealthy and all a lie, Men and women should just be truthful with each other.

Men and women don't want want anything to do with each other unless they can can get either sex or money from each other so why not just get rid of marriages and relationships all together between men and women? Women want a relationship/marriage they can have it with other women, and men can get the sex they want and not have to ever speak or be around women ever again.

I guarantee the world will be a lot happier place.

Answer 1

In my opinion, of course, men and women love each other. I have known many women that have stood by their man in hard times, when they are out of work and on their last dollar and I have known many men that have stood by their women in a medical, physical or mental dilemma. Love is something that goes well beyond the physical. True love, I mean. It delves into the realms of the soul. I am so sorry that some do not or have not experienced it, but hopefully you will eventually. I hate to use the term 'soul mate', for many ppl use it flippantly. It is a reality and you will know this when you meet the right one. I know, I have been happily married and content for 30 odd years. My husband has been sick for a lot of those years and I have been the bread winner, so there goes your theory. Through thick and thin its called. Many young ppl are so quick to run, when they should stand and fight. Marriage is a sacred institution. Not for any religious ceremony, but for the fact that you made a committment to someone that you love and will always love. Life's crap is just that....some take it far too seriously. It is how we treat and respect each other, not the amount of money we make. I feel sorry for you that you believe women are after money and men for sex. Get a firmer grip on it! Research shows that men live longer if married - women live longer If they stay single........therefore women are doing guys a favour.

Answer 2

I couldn't have said it better myself. Guys want the sex, women want the cash. That is it in it's simplest form. That's why guys cheat and women shop. Take away all the other B.S. and that is all there is. I think lots of guys know this, but don't accept it as truth. Women live in fairy tale land, they don't want to hear any of this.

Bravo!!!!!!!