this boy he asked me for a hug but i didn't give it to him... was i mean?

Question

well i didn't give it to him cuz i thought he was just like playing around with me. i've seen him give hugs to girls all the time so i didn't wanna b just another girl that gives him hugs and make him feel like a real pimp. like two months ago, he was all telling me to suck his dick and ****. and they two weeks ago, he came and sat next to me on a bench at gym so i told him to tie my shoes before he could say anything like that. he did. and then he asked me if i liked boys or girls so i told him that i like both. and he smiled and he said i like both too ... espeically you. i was like wtf. and then this girl came by and was like "ya go out?" and i was like no... and he was like today we is. i just walked away. the following week, he didn't say anything to me. and even if he did, it would b like hi babe or wassup, o one time he came up to me and did that wassup nod thing and just stared at me. didn't even say anything nasty or nothing. but yesterday he came up and he was like wassup

friend can i get a hug. and i was like no. and he was like why not. and i was like iono. so he asked what highschool i was going to and i told him the name of a private girls school. and he was like ewww you gonna like girls... naw just playing... and he gave me a hug and walked away. he is kinda cute sometimes but i don't like how he always be going around mesisng with girls and letting me noe that im just one of the girls that he be messing with. was i mean for not giving him a hug? or did i do the right hting?

Answer 1

no no u are not mean

Answer 2

You should have provided the age of this fellow. Because if he's 10 (lol most likely not though), then you should expect him to not care that much about girls' feelings.

Answer 3

u werent mean at all.