At work I hear a lot of people saying I'm going to my friend's tonight or we have friends coming over. I don't have any friends really and don't seem to reach out for them either. Is this normal?
2007-03-10 10:11:30 · 12 answers · asked by sweet 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not really, most people need friends. If you have pets, tho, that relaly helps.
2007-03-10 10:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by ღQueenღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason you don't reach out to people for friendship? Were you hurt by a friend when you were younger? Do you think you're not good enough to be anyone's friend? We all need people in our lives. It's easy not to. I know by experience. But I found that once I let other people in to my life, little by little, it made me feel like I'm wanted and needed by others. It's a good feeling. When I was alone, I was struggling with my own thoughts and feelings and had nothing to compare them to. So whatever I thought, I thought was the truth, even if it was wrong (i.e., thinking I'm stupid or not important). Your workplace would be a good place to start making friends. Give it a try! Good luck to you.
2007-03-10 18:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont thinks its normal really...no..its human nature to want companionship through freinds or mates..etc...but i suppose u have had friends before that have let u down or u have convinced urself that ur fine without them...i dont have a lot of friends and i dont want a lot of them either...but i do have genuine ppl whom i luv as friends. The thing is just that when choosing u gotta be really careful and chose ppl that have similar goals and morals that you do...just try it...u might not think so now but later on i life ur gonna feel really lonely and unfulfiled if u dont reach out for friends...who u can share really cool experiences with
2007-03-10 18:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by Bloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is completely normal. I have friends but keep them at a distance when it comes to needing my alone time. Sometimes friends aren't what you need and for me spending time alone has helped me grow as a person more than having alot of friends around. Having someone to confide in is nice.. but sometimes causes you more harm than good. I think you are fine.
2007-03-10 19:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by sass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weather its normal or not who no's. Everyone should have friends, its very healthy and you are much happier when you have friends. Perhaps you are just shy, mabe you just have to smile and look friendly and be positive, when people see you smile they are more apt to talk to you. Life is too short to always be alone. Take care Heather
2007-03-10 18:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i guess so. but everybody needs at least one good friend to be there for them. i mean you're probably more of the keep to self type and that is normal. however just think about it this way everyone needs someone to be there in hard times
2007-03-10 18:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is comfortabule for you it is okay. I wuldnut worrie about it.
i donut half a lot of friendds and i donut thinkk i need them. I donut feel i neede to go out with themm anyway. i donut likke to go out in groopes. That is not how i rolle.
however it i nice to half a cuople of peopule you can reach out two if you need sumeone. evun if it is sumeone you calle onts in awhile or email. you donut want to half no one if you neede sumeone to leene on.
2007-03-10 18:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by Timothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal if you are happy with yourself then your life is complete but you might just want to talk to may be one person or something like that.Like a person to talk to
2007-03-10 19:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by Ashes! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are some people like you and it's okay I mean it's okay but not exactly normal.
2007-03-10 19:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by Indira B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think...yes!
i have friends.. but their not a lot...
my real friends r around 3...
i know people who want to be left alone.. but if u could have friends...y dont u...
i think you'll like it !! :D
2007-03-10 18:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by michel s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋