im 17 years old boy i have more sexual feeling toward men than woman,I dont want to have sex with men but i do with woman but im afraid i wont get it up in the bedroom
help please?
2007-03-10 09:58:33 · 3 answers · asked by hpnvidia000 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are at a very confusing age. Perhaps you should wait until you are more emotionally mature before you make such a difficult decision. It's normal to have the feelings you're having. Just be patient and get to know yourself.
2007-03-10 10:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is something that you are having trouble deciding it isn't a good idea to go and have sex with either member of the sexes as this may cause more problems that good. You should attempt to sort through your feelings and emotions about both sexes and not focus on so much as to figuring it out, but getting a better understanding on how you feel about the situation. You should not feel that you have to have all of this figured out, because its completely normal for younger males to have sexual feelings and/or fantasies about men. It is these instances that is a normal psychosexual development of the male psyche. Just give yourself time and really just think about things and know that there is nothing unhealthy about the way you are thinking at this point in time.
Good Luck
2007-03-10 20:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mickey Von Luttrell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are afraid to be gay. It's okay and totally normal to have feelings toward both men and women. You need to discover those feelings. Try going on dates with both genders and you can think about the benefits of each.
2007-03-10 18:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋