im 17 years old boy i have more sexual feeling toward men than woman,I dont want to have sex with men but i do with woman but im afraid i wont get it up in the bedroom
help please?
2007-03-10 09:52:37 · 13 answers · asked by hpnvidia000 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
sorry don't know what advice you want. And if you have more sexual feelings for men then woman, why would you want to have sex with women instead of men? Doesn't make sense. If you want to have sex with girls but aren't attracted to them, then think about naked guys i guess. I don't know. Or you could start with some foreplay, like her sucking on your dick, which should give you an erection. Sorry don't really know much about your predicament. hope it helps.
2007-03-10 10:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by B20Mac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to experiment a bit. You might find that you like having sex with men or women or both, or both together. It's not an intellectual process... just go with the flow. You might even get off thinking about having sex with a man... but not really enjoy actually being with one. Thre is only one way to find out. 17 years old ... take your time... plenty of gay men will want to pop your cherry. I highly recommend that you try the ladies first - you won't regret this advice if you follow it!
2007-03-10 19:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you are gay or straight, it's OK. That's the first thing to remember. The American Psychological Association states that sexual orientation is fixed before puberty, and cannot then be changed - so by now, your orientation is fixed.
The easiest way to decide your orientation is to examine your fantasies when masterbating. If those almost always involve having sex with men, you are gay; and if they almost always involve sex with women, you are straight.
Some people lie in the middle - they are bisexual, and have mixed fantasies about having sex with men and women.
All of these things - straight, gay, or bi-sexual - are OK, and you should just relax and enjoy your body and your partner's. Sex will happen naturally with the right people for you. Don't stress about it.
2007-03-10 18:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probably are more comfortable with men because you are more familiar with men. Probably seen more naked men in your life - in the locker room, shower etc than women.
At 17, your body will respond to any sexual stimulation. This is normal and very confusing to a lot of guys.
Just relax and let nature happen. When the right girl comes along, you will know it and everything will work.
2007-03-10 23:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by russanator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE!!! Ur not the only one, i'll tell you what helped me. I think its cuz ur nerves and thats natural. You have to find a woman that does stuff for you . u need to know her for a wile like a friend then it is dfferent. Im the same way its probobly cuz ur really self conscies of your self and it gets in the way of things. I also think its a mind set thing where u dont know how to react to them. My friends told it best to me. And i mean really u have to get over that like, they told me shake it at her, everybodies penis is different and they dont know that but dont let that get into ur head. What u should not do is what i did dont drink alot or anyof that when ur with a woman cuz it changes ur ability to perform. Ur not the only one. Hope that makes ur day better!
2007-03-10 18:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by Peter Kiryluk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be gay, but as Teenagers grow up many feel like they dont fit in, or there to short etc. and sometimes you see a male friend that you wish you were more like, and that emotion can sometimes feel like love or attraction but its not, your to young to say your gay or w/e, but once you figure things out, w/e you are is alright because thats you. So try out a girlfriend and see what happens.
2007-03-10 19:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look go to the bathroom and masturabte then after you cumm thin about it "am i gay" then you may realise if u r or not....dude ppl is going to love u no matter wat i hope this helps and sorry that ur confused....but if u get turned on by men that doesnt make you gay just try and think.....
2007-03-10 22:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by latin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-11 15:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she a good enough woman,she will get it up for you.
2007-03-10 21:12:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this always happens cuz i has da same problem... but untill i tasted PUSS omg now i want pussy everii sedond...if u like woman moa than mans try to **** ur grul....it works.........(-_-)
2007-03-14 17:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by salazar_gedif_danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋