I am starting to feel no love for my husband, what should I do?

Answer 1

Tell him...that you are feeling like you are falling out of love...if you wait...he will notice your behavior and suspect which will cause problems

Answer 2

You have decide what makes you feel this way. The you must decide what to do about it you can receive all the advice in the world but no one can tell you how you feel. Does your relationship with your husband lack the spice it use to have? Then attempt to spice it up. You have work at relationships and it is not always easy. Married couples can love each other all day long but being in love with one another is different

Answer 3

You didn't give enough details to get a reasonable answer. Is he abusing you? If he is not mistreating you in any way or engaging in abnormal or destructive behavior and you simply feel unsure of your love, consider this. In every marriage people go through different stages. At first, you are deliriously happy. You are obsessed with the man. You adore him from the top of his head to his toes. His voice is like music to your ears. You basically live and breathe for him.

Then you become accustomed to being with him. You still love him, but your feelings are not as intense. You sink into a sort of peacefulness, a compromise, acceptance and awareness that sometimes life is just not perfect. You decide to stick it out.

After a while you begin to see even more of his flaws. Maybe you argue more. Your hunk begins to seem more like a chomp. His little habits begin to irritate you. He bores you sometimes. All the little things that you used to like about him begin to grate on your nerves but you really don't know why.
Other men are starting to look better to you. You begin to notice all your friends or other women who seem to have "perfect" husbands. You begin to feel sorry for yourself and now you start to think you can't stand your guy.

Get a hold of yourself. This is a natural progression of a relationship/marriage. You can fall in love with him again. Go back in time. Think about all the wonderful times you used to have together. Think of all the nice things he used to/continues to do. See him as another human being just like yourself. Try to recapture some of the romance. Plan activities together. Reminisce together about when you both met. Try something new. Work on yourself. Sometimes when people feel unhappy with a spouse, they are really unhappy with themselves. No one can make you happy and no one should have that job anyway. Every man has his own growing pains. Use your imagination and try to infuse new life into your marriage. Don't be hard on yourself. Try to see your man in a different light. Don't give up without a fight. There may be light at the end of the tunnel. I wish the best for you.

Answer 4

I would actually need to know more info before I could give you any advice. How long have you been married? How long did you know each other before you got married? Has this truly just 'started' or having you been feeling this way for some time now? Is your marriage a good one that has gone stale or have some things happened to make you think and feel this way?

Answer 5

All relationships go through different phases. Try going away or having a date night? Do you remember what you fell in love with in the beginning? I wish I had a cure all answer for you, but I don't. I just want you to try anything you can think of. Worst case, maybe try and talk to a pro, like a counsler or minister.

Take care!

Answer 6

Well that does happen over time... but you got to work things out and see what works and what dont... Cant just give up on marriage.. When things go stale.. try new things till you find something you both like... give it some time of trying then consiter the alternative.

Answer 7

Well if you feel that way about him, just have a sit down you and him and tlak about it and see what is happening between the both of you'll that makes you feel that way about him. ALso amke sure it just a civil converstion without anyone getting mad or yelling. But want to chat more just IM me anytime

Answer 8

Start to tell him gently that you are losing something in your relationship, and agree to try to change it. Try doing something new, (it doesn't have to be dirty or anything) for instance, a date once a week, go out for dinner or the movies, and have fun. My fiancee and I like minigolf, its silly and juvenile, but it can be lots of fun! If there is something new, out of your normal routine, then you might get a spark!

Answer 9

Maybe you need to sit down and talk to your husband or maybe find a outside source and talk to them. You need to find out why you are having those feelings.

Answer 10

Well, you got in it to win it. I'd say for you to seek some professional help and then get hubby involved. That way they can see if its something you need to change or work on. You'll get through this and know nothing good comes easy.