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Hmmm... anyone else getting nasty emails in response to an answer they posted regarding porn? Here's the question - http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArHr1H0rpuSoJAXEX5fL5cjsy6IX?qid=20070310111440AAiDPOe&show=7#profile-info-191bb1756bf7988e620e25a0ad0e54f7aa
I can't believe the email I got from a user (whose profile is no longer available, so I can't even tell who she is) in response to my answer. Let's just say it was more pornographic than anything I've seen lately, condemning me for my answer. I'm posting this in Marriage/Divorce because that's where the original question was - I'm assuming I'm not the only one that got a nasty email from this lovely, well educated, saintly woman.
Blocking her won't even help, since the profile she emailed me from is gone. If she had sent it under her regular profile, and I had reported the email, she would have been banned... it was REALLY crude. Gotta love some of the people on this site!!!

2007-03-10 09:37:13 · 3 answers · asked by ~StepfordWife~ 3 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

To I WAS SUSPENDED TODAY -
Gee, I guess I found out who my friendly email pal was. Again, never said I loved porn - and didn't ask for raunchy, crude emails. There's a difference between a guy who looks at porn occasionally, and one who is addicted, just as there's a difference between one who looks at ADULT porn and one who looks at CHILD PORN. I believe that was part of my answer.
How about we agree to disagree and you take your suspension (well deserved, I think) like an adult?
Society is never going to agree on this issue - and neither are we. I feel that there is nothing wrong with adults occasionally viewing porn. Most women are not coerced or trapped into the lifestyle, they CHOOSE it. People need to be responsible for their own actions, and stop blaming everything but themselves for THEIR poor choices. If it's ruining your marriage, causing you to think about children sexually, or fantasies of rape, then STOP LOOKING AT PORN. Let's put the blame where it belongs.

2007-03-10 10:32:57 · update #1

I thought about changing my profile to not allow emails - but I've been contacted off site by a few people who were very sweet and wanted more info or to chat more in depth - so I'm just going to be the adult in this situation and delete the emails. Though, I will admit, I've had a rather lively and interesting email convo with I WAS SUSPENDED for a little bit. Pretty sure that was who sent the original email. Guess this is a good time to use the DELETE key.

2007-03-10 13:22:36 · update #2

3 answers

The first thing I would do is to change your profile so that no-one can email you. This world is full of biggots and judgements....you are entitled to your opinion, as much as they are entitled to theirs, but a person must draw the line at being attacked personally because of your opinions. We live in a democratic society....well, we are supposed to, but people go too far with their opinions and emailing you rude comments is just plain rude and unacceptable. Maybe the old Shakespear saying holds true in this case...."Me think he protests too much"..... maybe, just like the homophobic who hates all gays and will bash a gay at the drop of a hat, and who is secretly gay and is denying his identity, so too is the people who send you nasty emails...me think they protest too much...they probably secretly watch porn themselves, but not the type of stuff we call acceptable, but the real sick stuff...and they have to justify themselves by bashing you for your "open" opinions. Dont allow people to email you....simple.....then you can safely have your opinions without being harrassed for them.

Wow, I just looked at the question, and I remembering answering that one too....but my answer isnt there....lucky I cant be emailed....I just got deleted....LOL....There are idiots on this site, you must know that by now.....it was an idiot who emailed you and probably the same idiot who got my answer deleted......dont worry about it....unfortunately, the woman who asked the question will not have a variety of sensible answers to mull over....only answers that this idiot finds acceptable.

2007-03-10 13:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 1 0

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2016-12-01 19:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

hi...yes I have gotten them too....got a threatening one the other day from some low life girl who wants to beat me up and ruin me....lol...some people are just ignorant and crude...ignore them...btw...you gave her a good answer and I gave you a thumbs up.....

2007-03-10 09:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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