So...is he gay?

Question

Sexless marriage for + 1 1/2 yrs. He's constantly chatting/downloading porn, and at first it was mostly women, but now it's women and transvestites (some with really big...umm...yeah.) When he chats he pretends he's a woman.

I'm already ready to go, but I mean, is he gay?!?!

Answer 1

well you can tell him if he's not going to take care of your needs then you are going to have to find someone who will.
If that don't work well I think you have a good idea of what you are up against.Time to move on or get him to move over for another guy.
And yes he needs to get his head back on straight

Answer 2

Um... Wow.

I mean, WOW.

I would definitely talk to him, but it sounds like he really has some strong tendencies to be gay. After no sex for a year and a half, I would begin to wonder where he was getting it. Is he sleeping with someone else, or does he just not find you attractive, anymore?

I'm sorry for your situation, honey, I really am. I wish I had some great advice to give you, but I honestly don't know what I would do if I were in your shoes. I think that I would talk to him about it, and if he said that he was gay, or that he was interested in being that way, let him go. You don't deserve a sexless marriage any more than he deserves to be in a marriage with someone who doesn't have the physical capability of satisfying his needs.

Once again, hon, I'm sorry you're going through this, but there's always a reason for everything, even if it's hard to see that reason at the time.

Answer 3

Yes. No straight man wants to look at another guy's stuff. Sorry about your situation.

Answer 4

sounds like he is testing the waters and is headed that way if not there already re-read your post and see what you think i dont understand staying this long...........good luck

Answer 5

I would say he's at least bi