closes eyes while having s3x?

Question

why does my wife always close her eyes while having sex is this normal and why.aslo once my wife has orgasmed i have to pull out as she says she becomes numb is this true as its such a pain as it means i cannot ejaculate inside her and end up having to finish myself of which i find totally degrading.is this normal as it has went on for years.

Answer 1

My first instinct was to tell you its totally normal to close your eyes during lovemaking, but after I read on, I think there is something very wrong. Your wife climaxes then you have to pull out?.....one of two things are happening here....she pretends to climax so that the sex act is over and done with quickly (thats why she closes her eyes because she is not enjoying sex), or she is a selfish lover....she climaxes and to hell with you.

I very much doubt the latter is true....I believe your wife has a problem with sex because if it has been happening for years then it is my guess she climaxes very quickly because men can climax at any time....so she would have to climax quickly because she wouldnt know when you were due to climax, so maybe she hasnt climaxed at all, but is a good excuse as to not continue having sex....maybe she has a problem with bodily fluids...maybe she is afraid of getting pregnant...there could be heaps of reasons. You need to sit her down and have a good talk to her because it doesnt seem right at all. You need to find out the real reason why she is a selfish lover...or maybe shes not a selfish lover...maybe she has huge hang ups that you are not aware of. Its not normal and you need to find out the reason why. The closing of the eyes is understandable, but usually not all the time, a person usually closes her eyes then opens them again at various points in lovemaking....I know I love having my eyes open at times to see the intensity in my man's face...for me thats a real turn on. Your wife is the only one who can answer this....ask her and if the reasons she gives isnt acceptable then tell her so....tell her that there is something she is not telling you and you need to know because she is not satisfying you. If she cares about your feelings she will try to help you understand....if she is only interested in herself then its time to make her own up to her selfishness and seek out some counselling. Communication is the only way you are going to sort this out and whatever the outcome maybe counselling will help sort out whatever problem your wife is experiencing.

Answer 2

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