2007-03-10 09:13:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
most people should be at least 30 before they get married. don't rush into it, make sure you totally trust and love each other. and there's still no guarantee
2007-03-10 09:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by heynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its something that you have to pray about hoping that this is the one for you. Its something that you can't really explain but you are sure until the wedding day when this comes I promise you, you would be asking yourself all kinds of questions. I went through this and I'm glad that I got married because in the end I recognized that he was the one for me. The man of my dreams. Trust me when I say you just know hell you would have negative thoughts in your head but don;t think about what people have to say or advice you go with your heart and worry about what he and yourself has to say about it. You are the only two people that could make this decision.
Good Luck soon you would be joining the marital ring. Make everyday an experience and love with your whole heart! Take risks you did take a risk in typing this message you could have risked breaking a nail, Lol!
You seem to be a person that is afraid to take risks but this is what life is all about you fall down and you dust off and you get up again.
Congratulations is in order.
Go do your thing!
2007-03-10 09:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nobody ever tells you this but I have found out (the hard way) that you are going to get hurt...the person you love the most and give your heart to has the power to hurt you the worse. and you have that same power. Its what you chose to do with it that counts. I married my husband 13 years ago..how did I know? I didn't...it just felt like it was the right thing to do. He has hurt me many times and I have hurt him. The key is working through that hurt and moving on. My husband and I see ourselves as a team...this is a key to a sucessful relationship. Good Luck in whatever you do.
2007-03-10 09:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by Laceyfromcali 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a risk, sweetheart. I got married and divorced after 3 1/2 years. I don't regret it but I know it just makes me stronger. You always have to look at it from a positive standing point, love is a rollercoaster of feelings and pride from one another. Trust me, if you feel God is guiding you to marriage. Trust him.
2007-03-10 09:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No couple should consider getting married UNTIL they've spent about a year together, and discussed ALL of the important issues in their lives; sex, children, money, careers, religion, philosophy, etc.
Life is one big gamble. You make your best choice and you put your heart on the line.
Welcome to Life.
2007-03-10 10:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Three rules
1 are you safe
2 do you have the same beliefs
3 are you respected
If you feel like you're willing to spend the rest of your life with this person and your love is true then, seize the chance.
2007-03-10 09:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DON'T know, hon...but if it's in both your hearts, that "I can't think of spending my life with anyone else"feeling,don't deny yourself a possible lifetime of utter happiness because of not taking that chance! Just make sure you are both ready...with each other and with your own life...the rest falls into place.Much happiness to you!
2007-03-10 09:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by mrs O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a crap shoot every time.
2007-03-10 09:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by ste.phunny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋