Okay, well heres the thing, I'm still a teenager and I have gone out with opposite sex, but I just don't feel the sort of connection to the women all the time. Like I sometimes feel like this:
Here is the other thing, I feel so attracted to many of the guys at my school, I mean, I'm friends with more guys than girls, and I like doing guy things... Like playing sports, partying, etc. Sometimes I just sorta fantasize about some of my male friends and stuff. It's kind of embarasing cause I'll be having a conversation with one of them, and then another one of my friends thats a guy comes over and I stare at his body, and sorta blank out for a little bit. It's attraction and I know it.
The thing is, I can still think that women look beautiful and hot etc... But some of my guy friends that are like Football jocks, or really attractive, I think that thy are really hot, but I just don't know....
Does anyone else expirience this?
2007-03-10 09:06:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
dont worry its all to do with the puberty thing, give yourself some time, let yout body grow and change, you'll see. Im pretty sure your bisexual though which is great! so jst be patient and you'll see, dont worry :-)
oh and by the way the guy above a few comments who said theres no 'inbetween', umm how about yes there is you dipstick, durr there are like millions of bisexuals in the world....get with the times.....
oh and also, your parents dont need to know this, not yet anyway lol :-) good luck!
2007-03-10 09:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by ダニエル 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its more normal than most guys would admit,
Having feelings for guys does not instantly mean anything.
Be true to yourself. what ever you eventually feel is your sexual alignment. I understand you may want to hide your feelings to jock friends, as a way to survive in school. many do
do not be ashamed, do not deny these feelings to yourself .
but don't let them freak you out. Relax, so you have feelings for both sexes, enjoy the fantasies. its normal, especially as a teenager, with all the hormones, we are told confused emotions are common, like having crushes on adults that can never be.
Just give it time, you will know eventually, being gay , hetro or bi. or even celibate
2007-03-10 09:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by steven m 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 19:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitley Gay. There is nothihg wrong with that though. You are also still young so this could be a phase. Just go with what you feel. Good luck and I wish you the best.
2007-03-10 09:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't experience this but most of my friends are gay and lesbians. i go out a lot with my friends to gay bar and clubs and i've noticed that a lot of them like to appreciate and acknowledge women's beauty. i almost never have a gay guy not stop me and out of nowhere say, "girl, you are gorgeous", "you're so hot, work it!" "you have amazing breasts (haha! that's another thing i've noticed...a lot of them have a thing for breasts AND like to touch them!)"
so with my experience with the gays lol is that you could very much be gay. a lot of my male friends dated girls until the established that they were def gay.
hope this helps somehow.
2007-03-10 09:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by léidibug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you fantacise about men so much you might be gay. just because women are appeling doesn't mean that you are bi. i mean women admire other women and they are not lesbians. since you are an adolescent there is plenty of time for you to find your true identity. don't worry. you'll figure things out eventually
2007-03-10 09:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you a homofagotoid? No big deal go for it. Pick you one and see if he want to have sex with you. Keep it up until you find one willing and try each other out. You can't get pregnant just have fun.
2007-03-10 09:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, i'm a teenager also, maybe you are confused what to think;like you want to like guys, but you still like girls.
it sounds confusing, but i'm sure you will figure it out....
and maybe you need someone to talk to about this.
i don't think it's something to hide, just tell someone how you feel.
:) i'm sure you will do the right thing.
GooD-LucK:)
2007-03-10 09:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by brittanie! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah your not gay... your just admitting that guys are handsome and good looking..i think that you still like girls just that you can admit when a guys body looks good or not. dont worry about it too much....
2007-03-10 10:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by modelgyal91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may be bisexual. But, it's really none of my business, or anybody else's for that matter.
2007-03-10 10:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by Busta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋