2007-03-10 09:04:35 · 11 answers · asked by ashdog38 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Because you really like that friend and you'd hate to lose them and when your in a fight it basically feels like your losing them.
2007-03-10 09:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by rocciaballo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is your sole friend of that title, the funnest, hyperest, most awesome friend to chill with, of course it hurts. It STINGS.
Why? You miss her. You don't miss whatever you're mad at her about (her additude, opinion, whatever) you miss her company.
Chances are, you two are really tight. If it's stressful, it's because you miss that. You miss the fact that you can't pick up the phone and call her, because, Oh yeah, you're fighting.
Also, the stress may lie in knowing all this, but not being willing to apoligize. Is it because she'll gloat? Because other people are in on this? To end a fight, apologies aren't nessacary. Just take her aside. DONT ACCUSE her of anything and agree to disagree. Sound to good to be true? Try it and see.
2007-03-10 17:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cloudyheartgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its b/c you are goin to be lonely or just not a excitable as it was and as i went through the same stuff i cried and then i realized that if were friends some how and someway we are goin to become friends again, a week later we r now best friends and stick side by side. It may seem long, but just go through it and realize it wasnt worth it and vow not to do it again, hey it worked for me
2007-03-10 17:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by jamecielle T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me it seems stressful because there is tention between you guys.And you're probably afraid of losing a friend. Thats how I was when my friend and I were fighting just this past week.It also may cause stress because you are afraid of your other friends turning against you.There could be a lot of reasons fighting with friends causes stress. Hope this helped.
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2007-03-10 17:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by .Forever Young. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you let someone into your world they become a part of your support system. When you have a conflict with them, they're not only out of your support system...they're something you need support about!
It's the emotional equivalent of needing a cane to walk, and having someone take away your cane and smacking you with it. Not only are you limping, you're taking hits.
2007-03-10 17:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can think of two reasons.
1. You don't want to lose your good friend.
2. You’re afraid that your friend may bring up one of your secrets, and/or weaknesses that you’re really sensitive about.
2007-03-10 17:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by supercyberfest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you shouldn't fight with friends and fighting like that isn't what friends do.friends are suppose to support you and they always got your back and when they don't that is what makes it so bad.
2007-03-10 17:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because it's someone you spend time with, and you're used to the company
2007-03-10 17:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by no_bsht 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your care. If you didn't care you would't give it a seconed thought.
2007-03-10 17:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDK.
BUT THE SAME THING HAPPENED WITH ME,
AND WE'RE STILL MAD AT EACHOTHER.
WEL ITS CUZZ YOU REALLY WANT EACHOTHER BACK.
AND NO ONE WANTS TO ADMIT IT!
:D
2007-03-10 17:09:53 · answer #10 · answered by (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋