Theres this girl shes my friend but i think i like her. what do i do?
2007-03-10 08:48:36 · 15 answers · asked by C Z 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Give it a try. Either it's for you or it's not! Find out. Either with her, or someone else. Personally I like guys, but hey... to each their own!
2007-03-10 08:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush. You have to ask yourself..."What is it that I like about her... Know the difference between LIKE & LUST. If you think you are a lesbian, and you find a natural attraction to her then, Just bring up a soft casual conversation between You & her only, about Lesbians and how you feel. Don't make any harsh statements and be honest with her. She will respect you more. But you also have to make sure she can be TRUSTWORTHY!!! Especially if you reveal your attractiveness to her. Be Cool and take your time. Also, observe how she inneracts with the people she socialize with. That is to see is she is SHIESTY /or/ 2-Faced.
2007-03-10 19:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by mocharvelous1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
liking someone of the same sex dont make you a les. what likes are you refering to?
even liking someone so close and that someone only till discussing somethings from under the sky till onto the bed dont really make you so?
it might be if you've more partners and doing so?
its only your thinking and still harmless but you're being too self conscious? if you're not into it physically, there's no harm in your thinking and fantasicies.
if you really like her and into fantasies, approach here slow and easy then. have it occurred to you, she may have made you feel so and giving you hints? if so your worries are over.
there's no better way than to find out but problem is how . . . thats another problem . . .lol.
good luck.
2007-03-10 19:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tke care that God destroyed sodoma and gomora which were full of homosexuals ..that wanted even to sleep with the angels sent to anounce Lot that God is going to destroy sodoma..
So If I were you I will go to church and find there the most handsome man on the Earth..because the most handsome men have the most beautiful pure eyes, and you are going to loose him if you engage in a relationship with a girl. because these men follow God and will never marry you...
You must see the girls as sisters , that is all. Don't sin !
Then you will better be happy that you are young and can choose from a lot of boys...The man is for you, the girl is for a boy..You will regret it later...men are extraordinarily and you should see this ...when you will fall in love...
If you will go with a girl..you shall sin, and you will loose the most handsome thing for woman .here on the earth ....a man .
2007-03-10 17:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you have to ask yourself those questions:
1. Are you sexualy attracted only to a women, or are you sexualy attracted both to a women and to a men? Because if you are sexualy attracted ONLY TO A WOMEN, THEN YOU ARE A LESBIAN (GAY) , but if you are sexualy attracted BOTH TO A WOMEN AND TO A MEN, THEN YOU ARE BISEXUAL.
and
2. Do you realy LOVE that girl?
'Cause, if you are realy in love with her, you should tell her how you feel for her, and ask her is she gay(lesbian), or not, and what are her feelings for you!
If her answer is positive, then you just go for it!
But if she says that she doesn't have that kind of feelings for you, then you may stay a friends!!!
Anyway, i don't think you have anytning to loose!!!
So just, GO FOR IT!!!
and... Good luck!!!
AND DON'T LISTEN TO THOSE PEOPLE WHO SAY THAT BEING GAY IS WRONG!!!
BEING GAY IS NOT WROG!!! BEING GAY IS NOT A SIN!!!
IT'S A PERFECTLY NORMAL THING!!!
SO, INJOY IN YOUR LIFE AND JUST GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!
kiss!
2007-03-10 17:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Brobila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and se what happens. If she dont feel the same, then you run the risk of losing her friendship. You do need to find yourself though. It is tough going through life confused.
Good luck
2007-03-10 16:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Michael b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa to fast you have to no if your in to girls first before going in to the hole i think i like you thing
but its as easy as this
you like girls not guys you a lesbian
you like guys nbot girls your straight
you like both your bi
other than that you have to see what her oppinion on the subject of gay and lesbians are
bring it up in a convo
2007-03-10 16:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by Monkeys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO;you like her as a friend.God said your not gay in the bible.I`ll prove it.Your plumbing is made to accept a pipe not hole.
2007-03-10 17:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you does she like you the same way you like her? ask her and tell her that you like her, but try to still be friends.
2007-03-10 16:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by Kylie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to think about how much better life would be if you didn't love her.
2007-03-10 16:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by Zachary R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋