2007-03-10 08:34:33 · 30 answers · asked by jim b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I didnt want to get into this but since it keeps comeing up one of the main reasons I dont want anything to do with guys they presure you into s*x then say you are gay for life.Well Im not.If I do not want to be gay I wont .I didnt even like it anyways.
2007-03-12 02:30:46 · update #1
Sure it is, honesty should be the basis for any relationship.
2007-03-10 08:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
My heart goes out to the poor woman that you get to fool into dating you.
How about this: When you were gay, would you want some man you were in love with to tell you if he had always been attracted to women only but now he's decided for the some bullsh!t reason to be gay?
2007-03-10 09:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would think you would want to tell them. I would certainly want to know if the man I was dating used to be gay although I am not sure how you can be formerly gay. I didn't realize you turn it off and on.
2007-03-10 08:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
used too be gay whast a crock. you are a godam fake and and a crock too the gasy community what a complete azz. used too be gay have no idea the kind of misery you will be. leading.
2007-03-10 12:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well hate to bust your bubble but if you were gay once you will always be gay and there's nothing you can do but curb those urge's. But I woudl tell them if you really want to. But hey what's in the past stays there and no one needs to know but you and God. SO keep it a secret not unless one of your friends live there and might tell them. But I wouldn't say anything not unless it came up.
2007-03-10 08:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
I think not. Why would she need to know unless there is some chance you may go back to the choice and break her heart. It's a personal choice whether or not you want to tell her. It has nothing to do with being rude.
2007-03-10 08:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by aintnobeans 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Exchanging sexual pasts is important in any relationship, particularly one that is sexual. You should be prepared for a lot of questions and be patient. You never know, she very well may have been sexually/romantically invovled with women.
2007-03-10 09:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by eschampion 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it's still taking up room in your head, you're probably still gay because your new girlfriend couldn't care less.
2007-03-10 08:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Nah. She'll find out eventually when she walks in on you gettin it on with some guy you picked up at a club.
Hate to break it to you, but you're still gay. You've just learned to suppress it. Or you're bi.
2007-03-10 09:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by Syck 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Just tell her the truth, you’re a bisexual guy and at the moment you’d rather be with a woman.
2007-03-10 10:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by MrCute 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No one can honestly say they "used" to be gay. But then that's labeling. You liked guys, but currently, your "into" women is more like it.
2007-03-10 09:09:02 · answer #11 · answered by Casper O 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋