i have this male platonic friend and hes always making comments about us becoming more or asking if i want more.what bothers me is he hardly calls me but like a few times a month so i cant understand why hes coming at me in a romantic way,when hes not even doing the right thing.we have spoke about his behavior a couple times now and he hasnt done much to change so im wondering should i just end the friendship completely?
2007-03-10 08:27:28 · 12 answers · asked by jelisa3120 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes, I think you should end the friendship it doesn't sound like a good on anyway
2007-03-10 08:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd find a public place - maybe a park or mcdonalds or something and go over it again that while you enjoy his friendship his advances are very uncomfortable and that you might need to give it some time apart for him to figure out if he wants to be satisfied with just being friends. I've been there before, it's not easy but maybe some time will help & you can then redirect him to some nice gals to date.......
2007-03-10 08:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. is this a casual friendship or something deeper? in the end it comes down to whether you think he's worth being friends with.
as for not doing the right thing, some of us guys (including me) are horrible at it. just tell him that you want to be just friends, and that if you ever change your mind you'll let him know.
2007-03-10 08:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to go beyond platonic? If so, and since he interested, tell him. He probably thinks he's told you too much about how he feels or he wants to give you space to think about and that is why he's not hassling you (which in his mind it might be hassling, but sounds like in your mind, it's a sign he really wants more?)
2007-03-10 08:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u have to endthe realiton cuz i dont thin that he neither love u or want u a friend soo u must leave him he is just playing and i want u to c if he ever asks u again about be more look if there is any girl around u so he might do this to make a girl he loves talk to him sooo u have to leave him....wish u luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-10 08:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by p@!n$ 0f l!fe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being a horn dog, and hoping he can parlay a casual friendship into a sex encounter. He has no clue - thinking with the "little head".
2007-03-10 08:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say yes you have spoken to him and the way he tree ts you is out of order their is no romance if he felt anything for you he would give it 100per sent sorry i fink you need to end it completely
2007-03-10 08:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by LAWRENCE Plamchops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be truthful, it doesn't sound like much of a friendship....what does it add to your life? Would you be heartbroken if you didn't talk to him a couple of times a month...sounds like he calls you when there is nothing else going on.....I would just let it die a natural death
2007-03-10 08:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yia you should because he only wants to get in your pants like he only calls you when he "needs" you
2007-03-10 08:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should do what u feel in your heart.
2007-03-10 08:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋