i really need to get my self together i'm dont know anything. i have no direction in my life i can't stay out of trobble and i don't know how to say no . i put everyone infront of what i want i just go along with whatever it's like i can't talk for myself. and all i do is compare myself to other people i'm not confident un less bryant is telling me im pretty but why would he say im ugly when he is going out with me.i feel like i have no character.like i dont stan for anything. and everything i do is completely around bryant what he wants all the time i dont have any me time between school sleep and cleaning i have no time for me.i dont know what to do i just got to do me and what i want to do for me i want to sleep tile i feel like getting up i want to spend time with my family talk on the phone listen to music just be me but who am i fun playful loud girl who just wants have funor smart independent quiet girl who has goals in life to make a difference. i find myself feeling alone.
2007-03-10 08:25:10 · 10 answers · asked by Lovely cryz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. One can be alone in a crowded room or adrift in a relationship. What you have I do not know I can call a relationship. Either you are very good at hiding your unhappiness or he is very dense not to never see it. And the IS dense not to even offer you the chance to do anything you might want to do even if he does not know what it is. If you do not want to do everything for him and all he wants to do at the expense of yourself, WHY? Most of the girls I ever met in your position(and some worse)put up with a butt nugget guy is because they feel wallowing in a muck of a relationship was better than being alone. Coming home to an emply house. Going shopping alone. And even worse, going to bed alone and not having a "dumb stick" to play with regularly. Imagine life without him but being able to do what YOU wanted to do? To be able to sit and read a book with a nice cup of coffee. Is he more important than that? What you have is the "fear of loss over the desire to gain" You will never win or be happy going at it that way. So long as you fear losing him and being alone, you will NEVER gain anything for you, no peace of mind, no "me time", no pursuit of your interest. You need to stand up. Say what YOU want. If he is a true man, and truly loves you, he will give some slack. If he rants like some spoiled child, then you know where you stand as far as he is concerned. The the only thing left is do you accept the relationship on HIS terms or step away so you can love yourself?
2007-03-18 01:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are always doing what bryant wants all the time then you're not going to have any me time. you should see if bryant wants to do something you want to do and if he can never seem to put himself aside just once for you then this is a clear sign that you need to get rid of him. and if he agrees to do something you want to do then take this as an opportunity to learn more about yourself. find something you like to do that won't get you in trouble and include a positive person in this activity. it's ok to be fun, playful, and loud but be smart and independent and have goals in life. If you find yourself feeling alone surround yourself with positive influences who want to see you succeed. Negative influences won't care where you are in life in the next couple of years.
2007-03-17 15:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to feel like this. Find time for yourself and ponder on what you have. Afterwards, you'll feel very lucky that you have all these things! Don't feel alone, I'm sure Bryant will be there for you. Talk to him, he's going to support you. Be strong and stand up for yourself. =)
2007-03-18 06:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think your intro line and your first line say it all ....you know what you need to do...'be released' &'get yourself together' stop your self doubt and do it...bryant will either step back and let you be yourself or he will try to hold you closer and control you more, if he does that then tell him goodbye, he is not good for you...
there are many self-help books at the bookstore or library in regards to people pleasers, go and go now to them and read how to take charge of your own life and build your self confidence... it will change your life and for the good...
2007-03-18 07:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by lynn s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reson why you feel alone is because you can't let others walk over you. You have to put your foot down but not that much. To sweet is going to get nasty. For example to much sweet cany is not going to tastest good and people will stop liking it. Don't go being bad go be your self.
2007-03-17 08:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
March 20, 2010. U ought to purchase it at nighttime at Borders i heard. They r having a sparkling Moon DVD launch social gathering commencing at Friday March 19 at 10. while its nighttime u ought to purchase the DVD. :D
2016-10-18 01:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by archuletta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like no one has respect for you. I would find something you really like to do and keep on practicing it when you feel alone. Something you like doing that is fun.
2007-03-18 07:29:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta do what you like doing. Everyone is unique. And you gotta make goals in your life to get somewhere
2007-03-17 14:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by cHicKy cHiCk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay focused and pray for direction. Good luck and take care of yourself, you are somebody special and never forget that!
2007-03-17 12:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by kind1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gurl if you going to let this guy walk all over you , it ain't worth it cause men ain't worth the mud on your shoe i say kick his *** to the curve.. BE THE BOSS!!!
2007-03-18 06:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by miss_cassie_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋