My dad has completly destroyed my life....we have to move because of him and i can't feel safe around him. Do i forgive him?
2007-03-10 08:20:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
forgive, but don't forget learn from it.
2007-03-10 08:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter how screwed up your dad maybe. In the bible it saids to forgive and forget.thats your best option and move on with your life.
2007-03-10 09:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by pinkboop16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is your father after all, right so you have to forgivez him, you know life is not as easy as you think just be sure that you re very dear to him & that had he had the choice he wouldnt harm you an inch.. try to forgive & love him..
Good luckkkkk
2007-03-10 08:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by kitycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In time you might be able to forgive him, however, you will never forget. I have found that If you can't forgive eventually it is you that it hurts in the end.
2007-03-10 09:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive him 7 times x 77 times. But that trust that you do not feel around him, go with that feeling about speaking or being around him later, yor guts good for more than eating.
2007-03-10 08:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by shocker83_fear_me23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on what he has done. In the end it has to be your decision on whether you want to be angry with him for the rest of your life or forgive him and move on with your life. no point looking in the past whatever has happenned its done you can't change it but you can change the future of your relationship with him..
2007-03-10 08:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by gaganjai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did he do? and y dont u feel safe around him?
eventually you will forgive him
2007-03-10 08:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he is your dad, im sure he is doing what is best for you............. good luck
2007-03-10 08:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be up to you..
2007-03-10 08:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋