Well you see I'm bi. I have a boyfriend and a girlfriend. I'm very much in love with them both. Some people say it's wrong. Any advice?
2007-03-10 08:02:00 · 5 answers · asked by I<3S.O.S. 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
if you like them both there is nothing wrong about it. The people who say it is wrong are wrong
2007-03-10 08:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by finn_vandoodle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's wrong if you're lying to one or both of them about the situation and you know your boyfriend or girlfriend would be upset if he or she found out about the other. If they know about each other and they're fine with it, then I don't think there's a problem there. Plenty of cultures promote polygamy or polyandry (polygamy's female counterpart) and it has worked for them for thousands of years. Only you know if this is a situation in which someone is going to get hurt badly, and if it is then you didn't even need to ask this question to know that something's wrong. Good luck!
2007-03-10 08:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your being honest about seeing both of them at the same time you are cheating. And unless you make a choice soon its going to eventually end up blowing up in your face and youll end up all alone. The fact that your bi doesnt consitute cheating behavior
2007-03-10 08:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by llovebug101l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wrong? If you loved 2 men would it be wrong?
How are they doing sharing you?
Not sure what advice you're seeking. Are you trying to make a choice?
2007-03-10 08:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before i give advice, i just want you to know i am NOT trying to offend you in ANY way at all i promise.
First of all, i believe that being Bi is wrong. Personally I believe that being "Bi" doesnt really exist...its just people thinking that they are because they want to be...sorry that doesnt really make sense.
Second of all, you are kind of cheating on them. Its like having two boyfriends at once. I also think that is wrong.
My advice is to dump the girl and go with the guy. I believe that you would be much happier that way. It is not natural to like other girls in that way.
You also might want to try going to church sometime or reading they Bible...it may help more than you think.
2007-03-10 08:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋