A lot of times when a man asks his girlfriend/wife for sex she makes up some excuse to get out of it like a head ache or she just plain says no. So if its such a hassel for women then why don't they just let their husbands and boyfriends sleep with other women? Its known that men need more sex then women, so it would kill two birds with one stone, men get what they want and women get more time for themselves. As long as both people get tested for diseases and kept safe, I don't see what the problem is. I really don't see a drawback here.
Why would women object to their boyfriend/Husband being pleasured and given something wonderful even if its not from them?
2007-03-10 07:59:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well I only want to share my man with me and only me , not every tom , dick , and harry .
2007-03-10 08:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Me777 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Nest here's the deal. It would be a double standard. The women would be expected to accept it and the men would throw a damn fit if the women wanted to do the same thing. Every now and then the headache thing is just a really nice way of saying "I am not into you at this time". Would you prefer a woman to say,"I am tired of having the same old sex with you so I want a break tonight?"
2007-03-10 18:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by Only hell mama ever raised 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because why you even have a girlfriend if you are not exclusive. Woman like to feel special, and sleeping with someone because a woman doesn't have a high sexual drive like men, is not acceptable if you are in a relationship. A relationship is about enjoying each other in all aspects and treating each other equal.
Men do not need more sex than woman. It's about the same actually. Woman are just more vocal when they don't want it. Men will be like sure why not.
Would you let your girlfriend/wife sleep with someone else if you went on a trip and would not be there to pleasure her. Or if you went to sleep afterwards and she was still horny.
2007-03-10 16:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by Virginia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same reason why men don't like it when their women are sleeping with somebody else other than them. Would you be okay with letting your girlfriend/wife sleep with somebody else if one day you didn't feel like having sex. Or say as you get older, you couldn't perform as well? (No offense intended)
If you would be okay with that, then find somebody who feels the same way. If you're not okay with that, then you are not being fair...it's a double standard.
2007-03-10 16:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by CrouchingTiger14 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've no idea. This is a good question, since more women these days cheat than men do (and no, it's not something the man did).
2007-03-10 16:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lord Vader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because most women are uptight about that kind of thing... unless they are in an open relationship or the swingers lifestyle.(which i think is very healthy) but yeah i believe most women are uptight and get jealous very easy and that is why it is supposedly the custom to sleep with only ones partner (spouse) and noone else. glad my relationship is different. lol most of my relatives are uptight... as with most women.
2007-03-10 16:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by mistyriver69 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋