A lot of times when a man asks his girlfriend/wife for sex she makes up some excuse to get out of it like a head ache or she just plain says no. So if its such a hassel for women then why don't they just let their husbands and boyfriends sleep with other women? Its known that men need more sex then women, so it would kill two birds with one stone, men get what they want and women get more time for themselves. As long as both people get tested for diseases and kept safe, I don't see what the problem is. I really don't see a drawback here.
Why would women object to their boyfriend/Husband being pleasured and given something wonderful even if its not from them?
2007-03-10 07:58:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh my, what you don't know about women. Sex for women is about intimacy. Unless you are a "professional," women engage in sex to get love, intimacy and closeness. Women don't want their men experiencing that type of closeness with someone else. It is too threatening to their relationship with you. That intimacy is one of the most sacred things about their relationship with their man.
2007-03-10 08:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Pinky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 things:
1. women are incredibly selfish and jealous creatures. whatever they have, they don't want to share with anybody else, even if they don't actually lose anything in the process.
2. women think that after marriage, sex is no longer for "fun." after marriage, they feel that having sex 2-6 times a year is perfectly natural and normal and that if their husband can't accept that, he doesn't love them or respect them or whatever.
on the flip side:
1. you shouldn't even be thinking about it. that's part of marriage: the abandonment of that which was fun and exciting and the embrace of that which is boring and mundane. if you are not ready to do that, you weren't ready for marriage.
2. that's what the gargantuan jar of vaseline is for.
2007-03-10 08:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is the best question i have heard all day. Why dont u go ask ur wife or gf that? That is wrong on SO many levels. Ur r such a pervert i hope ur gf or wife sets u straight... out the door.
2007-03-10 08:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because sex is not about getting the most physical pleasure possible... sex is about love.
sex is meant to be had between one man and one woman when they are married. then, if there is some sort of dissatisfaction, the two of you work it out between yourselves. it's not right for one person to ignore the other's needs, and it's definitely not right for either person to stray outside the marriage to please their own carnal desires.
we're human beings for crying out loud, not amoral animals.
if you must continue to live a hedonistic and selfish life, at lease spare some poor female from putting up with your antics and inevitably being hurt by you.
p.s. if you somehow find a girl willing to have the kind of relationship you're proposing - just so ya know - she doesn't love you.
if you have any desire to find real love, you'll need to change your ways/values.
2007-03-10 09:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by itsjustme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have not thought this all the way through, maybe what you really want to do is watch her have sex with another guy. There is actually a word for guy's that like to watch there wife's or GF having sex with another guy, they are called a
CUCKOLD.
2007-03-10 08:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about the fact that your girlfriend wants to have sex and you're not in the mood(maybe you're sick, tired,had a bad day) would you accept to know her sleeping with an another man and?(i take in consideration the fact that you love each other).and be happy. the fact that she is jealous mean she loves you and she cares about you. hope i helped you
2007-03-10 08:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by Blue_eyes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The same reason a man doesn't want to have a women who get pleasure from another man. Duh! Did you really ask this question. Even worse, did i really waste my time answering. God bless****
2007-03-10 08:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because women are terrible selfish beasts
2007-03-10 08:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol....talk to your wife and I think she will explain the drawbacks to you....
2007-03-10 08:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ARE YIOU SERIOUSLY RETARD IN THAT THING YOU CALL A BRAIN I THINK YOU CAN ANSWER THAT YOURSELF
2007-03-10 08:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by hardyharhar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋