how do you know if you love someone... or you just want to be with someone because your afraid to be alone... my bf told me he loved me and i couldnt say it back... he seemed kinda hurt but we just kept talking about random stuff after that... but i dont know if i love him or not... we have been together for 6 months... becuase i couldnt tell him i loved him does that mean i dont love him??
2007-03-10 07:43:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
your right i dose not mean that you don't love him because when i was going out with my boyfriend for a couple of months he said he loved me and i did not not want to say back because i didn't want to hurt his feelings so i didn't and once i said it i got this tingling feeling and i knew that he really did love me and that it was going to be okay so mabey the next time he says it you can say it back and see what type of feeling you get and think about it and and see if it really is that type of fealign that you alway dreamed about but think before you do it because you don't want to make the wrong mistake because you want to be happy
2007-03-10 08:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by kaitlyn w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf sent this to me. This is what love is in our opinion. Also, just because you couldn't say it doesn't mean you don't love him. Maybe you need to sort out your feelings for him. He may have just caught you by surprise, so you didn't know what to say or think. Hope this helps. :)
> Every moment my mind has free time I'm thinking about you. I don't
> see you for a day and I'm missing you, and even when I do see you
> during the day it always seems like it wasn't enough time spent
> together. I can't believe you're real, something so beautiful can't
> be real. I burn for feelings in return, for discussion, and
> interaction. And most importantly you're perfect, not as in
> impossible to fill ideal perfect created by man, but in my
> standards, and as a human you're perfect. You're so beautiful
> its like looking at the stars, you can make a second last an
> eternity. And I never get sick of being with you.
2007-03-11 23:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Baby 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
no not at all. being in love is a special feeling. you have to give it time. your friend mayy have seem hurt but not everyone feels the same way. like kevin to brittney. if you don't feel right or feel weird give yorself some time and see haw u feel in the future. anyway i hope this helps and i want you to know love may take your whole life to find.
2007-03-10 15:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by malgosia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know you love someone when...
- you would do ANYTHING for them
- you hate to see them upset
- you're always thinking about them
- you smile to yourself when you think about them
- you don't want to go to sleep at night because reality is better than a dream could ever be
- you can be yourself around them and there's no pressure in the relationship
- you can tell them anything, and you completely trust them
2007-03-10 16:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Tayla G 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
love sucks i dated tons of chicks without loving um and the second i loved one she ripped my heart out.
on a lighter note (i don't know if this will help though) your situation seems that you already got somebody and a new dude showed up. he probably is just embarrassed (referring to the random stuff)
2007-03-11 04:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you can't say it then you don't love him. But you might fall inlove iwth him over time. 6 months is not very long. Give yourself some more time.
2007-03-10 15:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is a feeling you cant describe with someone you know you cant live without...its when you miss him the second he leaves ..and you smile just by thinking of him...when everything that used to go wrong suddenly goes right...when everything you do you want him to be there with you..n everything jus feels RIGHT.
2007-03-10 22:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well depends on ur age...... i get annoyed when my friends say the love their bf/gf that they break up w/ every week..... and we r only in 7th grade....... i believe we dont really know what love is...... and for u it doesnt mean u dont love him...... it may just mean ur not ready to say that to some1 or u just dont know if u love him.........
2007-03-10 20:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
...something is almost better than nothing, If you have to ask yourself if you love him, then the chances are that you dont,
I feel you are sticking with this guy till someone better comes along....dont do that.
2007-03-10 17:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by hidoug 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts more saying "I love you" and not REALLY meaning it entirely, than the other way round
2007-03-12 18:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by davpal1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋