Dont give me obvious answers like 'If HE LOOKS AT GUYS' or 'IF HE LIKES PENISES' No...how can u really tell?
2007-03-10 07:30:48 · 9 answers · asked by tristan h 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you could ask them,or if thats not a option mind your own bizwacks.but if your asking then you probably already know the answer.
2007-03-10 07:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby the Ghost Hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Know When He Doesn't Want To Become Sexual With you Or If He Becomes Hesitant When You Talk About Sex Or Just If he Kisses You For Only A Second And Never Any Longer
2007-03-10 15:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he tells you, or displays his preference publically (ie, dates, kisses & cuddles both sexes) to where it would be safe to assume, then you can never really tell.
We can guess, make assumptions and draw conclusions all we like as to what we think someones sexual preference is. And sometimes we may guess correctly. But it is impossible to detect every gay or bi individual.
And so it should be.
I think it is ridiculous that people need to 'come out' as gay/bi/straight etc. Of course this may be relevant information when dating etc. But for eryone else....Who cares if they like sex with a man and a woman. And WHY, oh WHY is that our business.
To me its nothing but a perverse fascination. People want to know when someone is screwing the same sex. Why?
And why are 'girls gone wild' videos so popular and acceptable to advertise on tv, but the equivacal guy on guy soft porn tapes would never be permitted on tv, nor is it considered acceptable. Why is this silly girl on girl action not 'gay'.?
Knowing if a guy is gay or bi is only your business if it affects you or a relationship personally. Otherwise why do you care?
2007-03-10 16:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by daisybabygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? In the large scale of important things, it doesn't matter.
2007-03-10 15:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by modesto_jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need good gaydar.
you acquire that by hanging out with lots of gay people.
2007-03-10 15:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Tania La Güera 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get to know him. Be sincere in your desire to have him in your life, so that either way you are happy to be with him.
2007-03-10 15:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by T S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he tells you. Otherwise you DON'T know. Don't fall for the stereotypes.
2007-03-10 15:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can tell from their voice, and their gestures.
2007-03-10 15:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by º°`°ºJon Q°º¤ø,¸ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if they talk about clothes, or know designer shoes...they'r gay
if they talk about clothes and girls they're bi
2007-03-10 15:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋