4 yrs almost been together, 2 yrs been engaged almost, 6 mo's since we have been married and i hate him . i dont know what to do. im not happy
2007-03-10 07:28:06 · 13 answers · asked by okey dokey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i love him
its not just hating him all of a sudden, it has to do with alot of **** that i dont care to mention. he knows im not happy. but like me, he doesnt want it to end. but the arguments keep getting worse and worse
2007-03-10 07:42:21 · update #1
You need to decide how you really feel about this man, and what you truly want in your life. If you love him and want to stay married, then you need marriage counseling. There is NO reason to live like this way for the rest of your life. I divorced my first husband and it was the best thing I did for myself. I am now remarried and VERY happy.
2007-03-10 08:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is too short to be in an unhappy marriage or relationship. If you are serious and hate him, then I would strongly suggest you divorce him and move on. Its not fair to either one of you to stay in the marriage at this point. Good Luck!
2007-03-10 15:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by CupCake 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to counseling. See a therapist alone and together. Cnt afford a therapist? See a minister
Good luck
2007-03-10 15:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by independent101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make a decision for yourself if you want to stay or go. Then, get your ducks in a row and leave or suck it up and stay. Only you have the power to make the changes in your life necessary to be happy.
2007-03-10 15:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time for counseling or making an appointment with a divorce lawyer.
2007-03-10 15:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what has he done to make you hate him? Hate doesn't just come out of no where. You must have loved him when you got married, so what changed?
2007-03-10 15:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
Why do you hate him...
You have not mentioned.....
That why do you hate your husband....
If there is strong reason to hate him...
Than i will suggest you to get separate....
Or sit together and try to work it out...
Or give yourself some time to think...
Coz it's decision of your and his life.....
Good Luck !!
2007-03-10 15:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by hitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird, did you not know that you hated him before marrying him and wasting his life. if you aren't happy, do you know why you are unhappy, does he know you aren't have. talk to him and let him know how you are feeling.
2007-03-10 15:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get out, see if you can get an annulment from the courts...get out if your unhappy now, just wait it'll only get worse
2007-03-10 15:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Work on marriage, not emotions.
Think of what you can have and what you might make of your marriage.
2007-03-10 15:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋