Umm Help Pleasee?!..?

Question

I Am Pregnant And Worried About How I Should Tell My Mother .. Any Help Wuold Me Greatly Apreciated Thankkyou ..x

Answer 1

Do not write her a note. That is just stupid. The best way to tell her is to be honest. I'm 21 years old and I told my mom by showing her my pregnancy verification. I tried to tell her, but she didn't believe me and that's why I showed her, but I think it's still a good idea. Good luck to you and God bless.

Answer 2

well the first time I just told my mum strieght out, she was disappointed but very supportive. (I wazs 17 and still at home) This time (baby number 4) I waited until I had my first scan and wrote a note from the baby and put a picture of the scan in with the note. She was shocked as I had just had a baby who was at the time 7 months. But still she couldnt really shout at me because she did it.

The best way is just to sit your mum down with a nice cuppa and tell her. Take any feedback that your mum gives and then have your say. Answer her questions truthfully and dont forget to ask her for help after all thats what mums are for.

Good Luck!

Answer 3

Well we could use a little more info in the question, like your age, if you live with your parents, etc. If you are young and still at home, you need to be honest and tell her. The sooner the better. If you keep it a secret, she may get even more angry that you kept it from her. The sooner you tell her the sooner you can sit down and discuss the future, find a doctor, things like that. Good luck, I'm sure it's hard but I think you'll feel way better after you just tell her. Take care!

Answer 4

Ok obviously your very very nervous and are looking for an alternative to telling your mum. I can only suggest telling a grandmother, aunt ,sister, someone your close to? and ask them to tell her or to be there when you tell her? If you really cant face it then i think it would be ok to write her a letter , that way you can get all your feelings down on paper which you would maybe find hard to express when your upset and nervous. I dont know what age you are but what about talking to a guidance councillor at school? and asking their advice or to be there when you tell her? Find out your options , and how you will support yourself and baby and this will show your mum you've thought about everything and are handling this in a mature manner. Good luck sweetheart , you'll be fine i'm sure.

Answer 5

I am assuming that you're quite young and thinking your mum won't approve?

i suggest waiting for a calm, quiet time at home, tell her that you have got something important to talk about, and sit down together and talk about it calmly.

It might take her by surprise so be prepared for some reactions based on shock.

Most mothers are good at supporting, loving and forgiving their children no matter what, so, even though it will be hard, I'm sure she'll be there for you.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

you could always take her out for a meal and tell her your pregnant that way there will be other people around so it will stay calm, i think its aways hard telling your parents your pregnant. I leave it till I'm past 12 wks. she might find it hard to start with but I'm sure she'll come round to the idea of being a nan/gran/grandma good luck and all the best.

Answer 8

I've looked at your profile so guess your'e quite young.

was in the same situation myself when I was school age, in my thirties now so wasn't so common in that day and age!
I started crying before I told her as I was so worked up about it. she was disappointed more than anything, but supported me. I asked for help and she gave it to me. I suppose it depends on what your relationship is like with your mother. At the end of the day she is your mother and is there to protect you so she will inevitably be upset with you and disappointed. Be honest and open.

Answer 9

Depends on how old you are sweetie. I would sit her down and basically reassure her that you`re happy with it, my mum reacted bad the first time round because I started crying and she said I look worried. But she said it was because she was worried about me and I didn`t seem happy. Maybe if you let her know that you`re fine with it, she will be too.

Good luck x

Answer 10

just have courage tell her to her face in the morning so you`s have all day to discus it, rather than at night and going to bed worrying about it all night
the sooner its out in the open the better for all
pick your time and do it