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I know one person online who has become a very close friend. Actually, now I really like him! He has admitted he likes me, too, but my parents would freak if they new. I know he's not a stalker, because I've spoken to him on the phone, and his parents have picked up once or twice, but my parents wouldn't accept that. I really like him, and I'm not willing to just give up. What should I do?

2007-03-10 07:22:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

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whoa !!! i am in a situation thats exactly similar to yours, except for the fact that we have confessed our love for each other. I'll tell you something, when I started out on this relationship, I hadnt cared at all what my future will be like, or what consequences i will face. I belived if this was true love, then it'll find its own way, coz thats what happens.....TRUE LOVE FINDS A WAY! So if u really like this guy and ur feelings are strong about him, if u feel he's ur perfect man, stop worrying about your parents and just get on with him.

You think ur parents will freak out coz they wont like you falling for someone like this, its perfectly normal to think so. they are parents and have our best interests at heart. Go into this relationship, and eventually let them see how happy you are with your man. Gradually ur parents will also give in to this. And ur story will have a really happy ending like in a fairytale!

I am an Indian... and with us there is a popular saying "Pyar kiya to darna kya" meaning dont be afraid to be in love. So dont be afraid ... just step into this world... believe me... its a magical place :)

2007-03-10 07:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by Raj 2 · 0 0

Well since you and him have spoken online and on the phone , why not agange to meet someplace very public , like at a sporting event or a movie theater with other friends ( u bring your friends he brings his) that way should he be somone unsavory you will have back up and there wont be the akwardness of being alone together for the 1st time.

2007-03-10 15:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by femmegoddess 2 · 0 0

Merely speaking on the phone and meeting face to face are completely two different things. I suggest you arrange to meet this guy in person. Make your observation and figure out if he's the same as the one who speaks to you on the phone. Its easy to lure a chick into fantasy world with lots of creative sweet talk over the phone. Speaking to each other face to face could be totally different.

2007-03-10 16:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Corn 1 · 0 0

Oh Wow. I was kinda in a situation like that once. I mean do you know anyone he knows? I did. If not that is kinda odd. I mean first you have to make SURE this kid is good.

If he is..Well I would advise you to tell your parents calmly and tell them that they can meet him. I think you should let them meet him at the same time you do to make sure he is a good guy and it could also ensure your safety.

2007-03-10 15:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would have a heart to heart talk with your parent and ask your parents if they would like to meet your online friend's parents then go from there

2007-03-10 15:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you dont even know what he looks like, his parents that picked up could have been friends. dont meet with him, even if you are sure he is ok. its a stupid idea actually. dont let anything go to far

2007-03-10 15:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by JB 3 · 0 0

For you to be feeling guilty and not wanting your parents to know... Doesn't that let you know that it is a wrong situation for you to be in?

2007-03-10 15:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You're going to have to tell your parents about it eventually if you want to see him.

GOOD LUCK :)

2007-03-10 15:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by frshprnce 2 · 0 0

well do you even know this person cause if not you shouldnt do anything with him not even meet cause thats wat creeps online do they say they like you tell you to meet them and BAMB they kid nap you

if you know the kid (not only by aim) then give it a try i guess

2007-03-10 15:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica T 2 · 0 0

you should do what you think is in your heart that right

2007-03-10 15:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by Daniella D 3 · 0 0

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