My Best friend n i are in the same school and i said that i will be in the same school as her but yesterday my mom told me that i'm going to a different school next year, and i don't know what to tell my bestfriend, help!!!!
2007-03-10 07:17:24 · 13 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, the longer you wait, the more its going to hurt your friend at the end of the year.
Your best friend will realize that not everything can turn out the way people expect it, and sometimes things just change.
You need to tell your friend as soon as you can, so it doesnt hurt them later. Plus its not right for best friends not to tell each other things, because they help each other get through everything.
2007-03-10 07:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by Rai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so look. You can't predict the future. Your best friend will understand that you have to go. I have a best friend and, though I have moved a lot, changed loots of schools, we've stayed friends for 7 years, going on 8. True friends will stay friends no matter the time distance. Just stay in contact, and stay honest and open. It will be alright then.
2007-03-10 07:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mailman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend the truth, talk with your mom and the school and see if there is ANY way to remain at the same school as your friend. it it is not probable or likely, discuss with your friend and set up certain day you both can see each other. just because ya'll are in separate schools doesn't mean the friendship needs to end. best of luck!
2007-03-10 07:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by rachel c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. You have no control over what your Mom says and does. You didn't know until now. Things change - that's just how life is. If your best friend doesn't understand - that's her problem.
2007-03-10 07:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain that it was out of our control as your Mom didn't include you in the decision making. If she is a real friend she should think about how you feel about being sent to another school without your mother consulting you.
2007-03-10 07:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HER! say im not gonna be in this school next year because my mom said im going to a new school or somthing like that
y would you ask a ? like that
2007-03-10 07:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your best friend that things have changed and tell her what your mom is intended to do and it is only the right thing to do. Otherwords that what friends are for --close friends anyway. Let her know that you will continue to have close contact with her.
2007-03-10 07:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to just come out and say whats going on. if you hide it and if she/he finds out later on, it could hurt him/her even more than just telling him/her the truth. im sure that they would take it well and that you two will find some way to still keep in touch after all, you are best friends.
2007-03-10 07:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her what your mother told you. There isn't anything you can do about it. I sure you two can still be friends even though you will be attending different schools.
2007-03-10 07:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that your going to a different school, but if you two can keep in touch by spenting time together in the weekends or when you have time
2007-03-10 07:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by Daniella D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋