Is it possible to love a girl and not get turned on unless you check her out...can i stil hav a gud life with her...she is beautifull and curvey with a beautifull body and figure but i dont get turned on like they show in movies a guy says shes hot wow...i dont feel it unless i really look at her curvey body and check her butt and stuf is that normal.i just dont get turned on by standing near her.but her face seems too get me on..does it depend on both of us.dif ppl get turned on diff
2007-03-10 07:15:53 · 8 answers · asked by nasserprofessional 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you really love her..then just the thought of them would turn you on in someway.
2007-03-10 07:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all - love doesn't have anything to do with how "turned on" you feel.
i think you're getting love and like confused.
relationships are not about how hot someone makes you.
but yes, it is possible to love someone you don't necessarily find attractive, but in the long run, it may become a road block at some point.
2007-03-10 10:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by itsjustme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is so much beauty in a persons personality and intelligence. So, yes, you can love someone without being turned on by their looks. You love the inside. This kind of person has sooo much to offer you. You will love her for everything she DOES have
2007-03-10 07:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by little Glo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just looking at her that will do this initially- it's after you have sex and think about all the different things you can do with her and her parts that will turn you on at a later time (after you become intimate). he he
Yes, you can love someone without lusting after them, but this is a mature part of your relationship that occurs over time.
2007-03-10 07:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by longleggedfirecracker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep Looking at her, think about what she looks like without her clothes, think about how warm and tender she is inside . Then ask real low, Do You Take Prescription Drugs.
2007-03-10 07:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is unconditional. The question that you are asking pertains to lust and not love. There is a huge difference.
Some relationships are like trees with shallow roots.
2007-03-10 07:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like a healthy perception. you dont get turned on unless you want to.
2007-03-10 07:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beauty is always in the eyes of the beholder.
2007-03-10 07:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by cadaholic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋