i'm i very conflicted and concern about this issue. is it a normal behaviour for straight men to have the desire to look at gay men? if its is, pls provide a logical explanation because i dont see how or why?
serious answers will be greatly appreciated.
2007-03-10 07:10:19 · 3 answers · asked by mlco 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The word 'straight' is actually misdefined by the forces of heterosexualisation.
Straight actually means a masculine, regular guy, although it is officically defined as 'heterosexual', the idea being that manhood = exclusive sexual interest in women (which is bullshit!).
Another fact, which has been so suppressed by the west is that:
Almost all men have a sexual interest in men, and it can be quite strong in most men.
Yes in the west they learn to hate it socially, to hide it and to disown it if ever asked. But it always remain deep in their mind, sometimes at the back of their mind.
So much so that those who are exclusively heterosexual are very few (like 5%: look like non-heterosexual/ industrialised societies, and look at the history........). And believe me they are not much of men. They are more like queers. Also, you wouldn't really call them 'straight' because it signifies manhood, regular, mainstream and majority guy.
It is because of the definitions, pressures and hostility against male bonds that men in the west put on masks of exclusive heterosexuality. This also includes show (pretence or real) hostility towards male sexual desire for men, fear of holding hand with a man, fear of sitting next to him......... all these things are considered so queer in our non-western society.
So to answer your question, it is absolutely normal for a straight guy to want to look at pictures of naked men and stuff.
But it is not usual for him to actually get down to doing it, because it requires clearing a lot of inner psychological walls of hostilitty/ hatred instilled by social conditioning ------ and accepting to yourself that you do have a sexual need for men ------ which due to oppressive social mechanisms, will make you feel less of a man, unless you learn to see these mechanisms as fake.
2007-03-10 17:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to question just how straight he is. i do not think most straight men would find this to be "normal"
2007-03-10 12:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way, I'm a guy and .....no way!
2007-03-10 12:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Creepy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋