Women are capable of abuse as well but in my case I will state it the abuser in the form of a man. Is it common for an abusive man to suddenly apologize over and over for what wrong has done, place all the blame on himself, and then claim that he will change and that things will be different and better? And then for a BRIEF time it seems like things are back to their Honeywoon sweet euphoric stage before falling down again?
2007-03-10 07:02:18 · 7 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Even in "emotionally abusive" relationships.
2007-03-10 09:21:10 · update #1
YES!! That is VERY common.If you are in a abusuive relationship,get out NOW please, please,please.Most abusers will apologize as much as they possibly can in order to gain your trust again.They will change for any amount of time...2 days,2 months or even a year but all that while its building up and the next abusive encounter will be even worse then the last one.
2007-03-10 07:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by swanlbby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived with a guy for 5 years, who beat me up and eventually put me in the hospital. And every time he hit me or was mean he said "sorry" and because I was young and had no real family I fell for it. Please leave this guy, take it from me it will be hard to leave at first but don't you want to get married and have kids with a nice loving man? If this guy is hitting you he will eventually start beating the kids.(if you have them) Now i am married and have a beautiful daughter and I can't imagine how things would have turned out if I stayed with this abusive man.
2007-03-10 07:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man abuse woman once he will do it again ,he gets worst and worst.You may end up dead or in a hospital so if you are in an abusive relationship get help , get out before it is too late.
2007-03-10 08:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by canielany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each and every physique is affected in a various way from abusive pasts. in spite of if, what you're experiencing could be somewhat straight forward. As you reported, your allure isn't continuously sexual, subsequently i might have self assurance which you're searching for kindness and approval of a male authority discern-in actuality searching for what you have been lacking as a toddler given which you have not healed. you would be attempting to fill a void which you're nonetheless experiencing. given which you're older, your emotions could be sexually oriented at situations. it somewhat is in many situations an undesirable development. i might advise some form of counseling to artwork by using those matters so which you will contain your self in healthful relationships. undergo in concepts many sufferers of abuse enter into abusive or undesirable relationships, and you do not prefer to be a sort of.
2016-10-18 01:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with my ex for almost 8 years, and he physically abused me, until someone told him to stop it or otherwise they would call the police. So instead he abused my property, like keyed my car, broke my mobiles, thats what he called CHANGE, so NO they do not change, the behaviour is already set in their minds they will abuse again...
2007-03-10 07:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup..... LITERALLY, called the" HONEYMOON" phase, of an abusive relationship
2007-03-10 07:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is it exactly.
2007-03-10 07:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by Li 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋