when i have sex i'm so dry before i gave birth to my doughter i really enjoy sex now i do not have any desire for sex anymore what should do ?something wrong with me?is there any medication that i can take ?
2007-03-10 06:51:56 · 5 answers · asked by sue 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
This is pretty common with women...I experience the same thing...with the demands of everyday things..then throw a child into life...well your body is pretty burned out to give more by the time you get into bed with your man for the night...Dryness is pretty common as you get older, and after having a child...the juices do start flowing after alittle four-play but there's lubes if you need them....you can always use your own "spit"...or get your husband to do it...don't worry nothing is wrong with you...your libido will return..don't be hard on yourself..good luck
2007-03-10 07:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by Happy2bAlive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby can throw your hormones out of wack for a good six monthes. How long has it been since you have given birth? Definitely check with your physician but i suspect hormone levels are to blame. If the problem has been going on longer than six monthes your physician will probably recommend the use of birth control to balance your hormones and lubrication to aid in dryness
2007-03-10 15:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by llovebug101l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some lube. I've never had a child. But I just recently started a new form of birth control, and I have the same problem as you. I'm drier then the Sahara. Lube is great!
2007-03-10 15:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of sexual disorders for women (and men) that deal with being able to naturally lube yourself, to just not feeling like it.
If you are concerned about it, you can ask your family doctor and he/she may be able to prescribe something. OR better yet - look into a psychologist, talking about it and finding an underlying problem and what you can do to help without medication. Or they could also find someone to prescribe you something as well.
2007-03-10 15:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Kristina N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you talked with him about it? depression or being too tired or even feeling more settled and happy are common for new mothers.
As far as helping with interest and dryness lubes work well, but mention it to him and I'd bet he would "GO DOWN" there to help you out a bit, that would help with both issues.
2007-03-11 00:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋