Why is it that when A girl's upset the guy feels the best way to deal with it is to yell at her?
My dad does it all the time, and so do a bunch of other guys I know. If I'm upset about something or depressed, they yell at me?
ex. I had just been to my first family funeral, spoken at the funeral, and an hour after I lowerd my family member in the ground my university called anc cancelled my application. And I got yelled at. how's that honestly supposed to help?
Like do guys honestly think yelling is going to make me feel that much better? Cuz all it ever really does is upset me more
2007-03-10 06:39:55 · 5 answers · asked by toronto_leafs 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
This comes from sadistic men that KNOW they are worthless. If they see you in your weakest state (as in, upset, to where you can't defend yourself), sadistic people will try to take advantage of it. My advice? Talk back. Even if you're upset, just tell them to shut the hell up.
2007-03-10 06:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It just shows they are rude and insensitive. You would be in your rights to say, "could you please speak up? i think the people 9 blocks from here missed some of that." I think you should show them a strong front even if you feel ghastly inside. Just tell them what you just said here..."Is yelling at me going to achieve a different outcome?" They have poor manners and no people skills. Hang in there and remember they are the ones we should feel sorry for. They have no more social skills than a gorilla doing a chest thump. Keep your head up and be proud that you know how to maintain your dignity.
Best wishes,
Lisa
2007-03-10 06:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling and what you are going through....... I try to sit and talk with my boyfriend and all he does is yell. I guess guys just think they will get somewhere by yelling at woman.
But I think all they try to do is hurt our feelings and upset us more. keep your head up girl!!!!
2007-03-10 06:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right i noticed that i dont feel good when i yell plus it raises your blood pressure and it really doesnt accomplish anything i feel ineffective and unfocused i am working on an effective alternative
2007-03-10 06:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by AlbertHoward.org 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel...
its such an odd phenomena (sp?)
whenever its that time of the month and i just want to be left alone, my dad always yells at me!(why, i do not know!)
2007-03-10 06:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by TheApocalypticOrgasm 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋