I really do like this girl in my class and i want to take our
relationship further what should I do?
2007-03-10 06:34:31 · 12 answers · asked by TG48273 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well if she is in your class just try to be close to her and ask her for home work or even you can ask her to explain something to you and there you can ask her to go by u or go by her and do home works ects and be her friend and then when u feel is the right time ask her to go out but for the first date dont tell her that you like her just wait a time you see that is the best time and tell her because you dont know the intentions she have with you ok !
2007-03-10 06:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Hindu_ Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a simple rule for such situations:
a) Verify if it is love or lust: If it's love, I would be thinking of her from my heart. If it's lust, you know "where the thinking source lies".
b) Verify if its is Love or infatuation - let it take some time say 3 months - try to engage in some other activity such as a new hobby. If she's still on your mind after 3 months, it's definietly not infatuation.
c) Now comes the big part, you need to convey your feelings to that girl. So be a man, call her for a date, send flowers, be a "natural" - don't try to flatter her more than she actually deserves. Just tell her when the right occasion comes (by holding her hand and looking into her eyes) that you have "feelings" for her. Say it naturally but don't expect her to react in that moment. Some girls would like to take the time to think. Some girls are "not interested" in you. Whatever it is, your duty is to do your part.
If she is a true girl, she would instantly tell you that she "does not have feelings for you". She doesn't have "you" in her mental image. Well, the buck stops here. She isn't the one for you. It might be a heartbreak but it's better that way.
2007-03-10 16:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be a close friend to her and try to make her trust u. talk to her in a good way and always make her feel that she is different from any other girl in class. but dont over react it so that she feel scared or something. always tell her good stuff like nice things about her character or her look or even a joke. but first try to know if she likes u or if she has anything for u. good luck.
2007-03-10 14:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by the freedom lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date that should take it further.
2007-03-10 15:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by krystyna s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt!! See how she takes it and if she flirts back, you might have a chance. If she flirts with everyone though, she might just be one of those girls who flirts with anything that moves so steer clear. Otherwise, go for it!
2007-03-10 14:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by yeraciba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do sweet stuff, like hold the door open for her... ect. be a geentle man, girls LOVE that! smile, stand up for her, and be yourself. never put her in a situation that willl embarrass her
luv her!
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josy
2007-03-10 15:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by Josy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out, im in the same boat only i cant ask him ou. Im moving away far from him :(
2007-03-10 14:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by confused aspen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never try and puss things like love, you cant control it, just talk, tell her that what's on your mind, if she listens and understand, then that's a great sign, but just enjoy what you have when you have it. good luck.
2007-03-10 14:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kickback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be her friend. flirt with her. and ask her out. those are the three things u could do!
2007-03-10 14:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by ummm....i dont know! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her out
2007-03-10 14:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by jrmint92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋