i will not see the love of my life until next year.i was drunk and now guilt hits in afterwards of course.i no i should have not done it ,but my boyfriend hasnt been a angel either.i know two wrongs dont make right .i still love my boyfriend more than life its self what should i do tell him or somethings are better lefted unsaid?
2007-03-10 06:29:22 · 19 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he is unlikely to find out, dont tell him. As you say he is no angel himself. Next time you want a leg over, dont do it on your own doorstep.
2007-03-10 06:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You could leave things unsaid between you--but he is bound to find out at some point...if not from you then from someone else. His best friend now has a hold over you, so anytime you don't 'come up with the goods' when he feels like it, he could possibly put a word in the right ear if he was feeling particularly vindictive, then the cat WILL be out of the bag! Best just tell him really as you did the crime--you must do the time. If you love your b/f "more than life itself"--(your words!)--there is no way you would have cheated on him in the first place, drunk or not.
2007-03-12 04:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to keep his friend and lose ur bf. What he does not know will not hurt him, dont mistake ur own guilt and the ease of easing ur own mind in doing the same to him. A friend, they will forgive each other but girls come and go! I suggest u keep stum.
No matter what people think we all make mistakes if you truly love ur bf then dont tell.. keep it ur little secret and never tell.
2007-03-10 14:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell him, if I were you, unless there's a major chance his friend will. If you aren't going to see him until next year it will all be water under the bridge. Talk to God about it and move on. Unless of course you got pregnant...in which case you have a serious problem.
2007-03-10 15:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how that happened. You love your boyfriend. That's what counts. Don't tell him, it will only cause a glitch in your relationship. Yes somethings are better left unsaid.
I can imagine some answers you'll receive." how could you" "You have to tell him." " In God's eyes you sinned".
Know what, God understands the situation .
2007-03-10 14:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you feel the need to mention that your boyfriend is Albanian? Do you think that would affect our opinion on your outrageous behaviour? I should think not! Of all the people you could have cheated on him with...you choose his friend...what does that say about you? The word "bottom feeder" comes to mind...
2007-03-10 22:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No here is a cunning ploy,tell the Albanian's friend,you slept with his friend and see where the friendship lies.I presume there were no British blokes available before you got into bed with these ne'erdowells then.My My how standards have dropped
2007-03-10 15:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no.Don't tell him. Get on with life and learn to live with what you have done. What will it achieve for either of you to tell him this? You made a mistake - no need to kill a relationship because of it.
2007-03-10 14:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by marie m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a silly girl, and unfortunately only you can answer this question! I only hope that you make the right disission.
All the Best.
2007-03-10 14:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Joolz of Salopia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that hes albo means that ur probably gonna get murdered along with his friend that slept with. in fact ur probably dead right now.
p.s. it dont matter if he wasnt faithful, hes albanian, he hs an excuse, although i dont believe in it.
2007-03-11 13:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋