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i am aiming at above 85%.i have done well in orevious exams and scored upto 70.i feel i wont be able to accomplish my target of 85%.i dont want to let my parents down.they have pinned up all hopes on me.i want to know is it really possible for me to get 85% or more.i am losing confidence.i feel very upset thinking this.i brighten up at the thought of how much happy my family will be,but get disappointed at the thought of not living up to thier expectations.i really need help.

2007-03-10 06:27:40 · 6 answers · asked by natasha_gulwadi 1 in Education & Reference Primary & Secondary Education

6 answers

Dear Natasha,
Don't worry, Be Happy. You will score over 85% marks as you have been studying very hard (not hardly).
However, I can see a feeling of self-doubt creeping in which happens to all those,like you.

Unfortunately, you have been born in a world of Comparisons,especially in India where urban families are becoming smaller and smaller and maybe with only one child. Thus every family gets very few chances and mostly only one to prove, what seems to them, in the small world living around them with which they interact often. The mass media also plays it's part by hyping the apparently success stories,again and again. THUS THE SINGLE CHILD IS USED AS A PAWN TO FULFIL THE ASPIRATIONS OF THEIR PARENTS, AS THEY PERCEIVE IT INSTEAD OF WHAT THE CHILD WANTS TO ACHIEVE. So what do you find---parents cramming in too many things within the waking hours of the child leaving him very little time to enjoy the simple things in life like playing with friends, reading story books, going on leisurely outings, sleeping, etc. Of course, the Double income families ensures that there is no lack of resources to fulfil their aspirations through the child. Unfortunately, even very well educated, mature people get afflicted by the above bug, putting additional pressure on the poor child who gradually stops thinking independently and starts doing everything BY ROTE for that is what is finally going to reflect on the Report-Card and amply aided by the Tution-Classes Culture. This further adds to the self-doubt building up in the child. So what is the final outcome in most of the cases--a Man nurtured by self-doubt, colourless, unprepared for the ways of the world as he has lived a blinkered existence, lacking in initiative as he has not been allowed to think independently, totally burnt out due to the struggle encountered in absorbing unpalatable concepts, offering nothing new to the industry as he is loathe to do things on his own.

To cut things short, my sincere advice to you is to carry on studying on a day to day basis regardless of the consequences.
To make a list of difficult, important topics to study now than leave for the very end.
To relax inbetween for short periods by going for walks, consciously breathe fresh-air, talk with friends on general topics not connected with your studies, watch hilarious movies on TV. In short, to do things which makes you happy and relaxed.
During the Exams, never discuss the question-paper with your friends or analyse it yourself in details. Get adequate sleep everyday and take a nutritious light diet.
While answering the paper, spend a few minutes reading the whole question-paper, marking the easier ones and dividing the time to finish the whole. Start answering with the ones you are sure about.
Renew your faith in God once again and everything will turn out good for you.

After the results are declared, do not compare with others but instead analyse that whatever marks you got are justified. Once fully satisfied than leave it at that--after all you are not inately designed to be good in everything that you are forced to study.
Now decide upon your carreer options yourself and not what others tell you or by which industry is doing well.
AFTER ALL YOU MUST ENJOY WHATEVER YOU ARE GOING TO PURSUE THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE.

BEST OF LUCK.

2007-03-10 08:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by mcmohan40 4 · 0 0

Don't worry dear..
Just go through the previous years papers..
If there is sm topic covered frequently which u've not done, jst glance on it too... and revise others well...
Don't worry ... You WILL score more than 85%..
I scored 88% and was just 80% prepared :-)

2007-03-10 07:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by saba 2 · 0 0

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2016-12-14 15:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hey relax ya...u have prepared much enough... study the same topics again and again....dont study new topics now. this the time for revision. so keep learning the same lessons.concentrate on 1 mark questions. be confident.. ok
ALL THE BEST..........

2007-03-10 06:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by cutey smarty girl 2 · 0 0

offcouse u will
juget some self confidence and dont waste time on pc and study
best of luck

2007-03-10 06:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by ankurbajaj_9 2 · 0 0

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2007-03-10 06:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by jade cullum 1 · 0 0

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