For instance, he told me that a car he wanted was $300 and it was like $485 or $490. He has been keeping the receipts, and I noticed we had paid over the $300 for it, but he keeps paying on it. Just like other things, he is constantly doing this. However, if someone lies to him he says this "I HATE LIARS". I am thinking... you lie a lot. He said "it's because I don't want you to worry." If I don't tell him that I grabbed a sandwhich out, he like goes nuts.. but he's allowed to do that with friends he has at work and is allowed to lie to me. He knew about the food because a friend of his seen me and our child something out. He questioned me to see if I would lie, and I didn't. I said, how did you know? He said "because I have people watching you"... whatever.
2007-03-10 06:17:10 · 6 answers · asked by chrystalbelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hold on here. He went nuts because you had a sandwich out??? What in the world..........? He has deeper issues than just these lies , especially if he has someone spying on you and reporting back to him. Girl, this is not healthy in a relationship.
2007-03-10 07:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask him to stop lying because you hate liars too and tell him you worry twice as much when he does lie. If he is lying about stupid stuff then this may go a lot deeper and he may be into something bad or illegal. or maybe he has a g/f on the side and he thinks you do as well or why else does he have people watching you? He seems very wierd, have you thought of divorce? Take care Heather
2007-03-10 14:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why ever would you put up with that? You teach people how to treat you, and by accepting that, you say its okay for you to lie and do things, but not me. BS on that. Tell him either things change to be more equal, and the lying quits straght away, or you are out of there. Who does he think he is, your father? What right does he have to "allow" you to do anything? Grow some balls, girlie, and stand up for yourself
2007-03-10 14:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by beebs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont you guys talk it over. it's better to hear his side why he's lying to you. keeping an open honest relationship and good communication is the key in trusting each other. goodluck!
2007-03-10 15:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lola 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is your husband.. He probably lied because he did not want to get into an argument with you..
2007-03-10 14:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
all i have to say
is i dont know ONE person you doesnt lie
everyone lies, and you do too
maybe his lies are more severe
but what r u gonna do?
everyone lies
2007-03-10 14:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by buddah 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋