how can i make my wife happier (sexyually)
2007-03-10 06:13:59 · 10 answers · asked by Luis E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Very easily. Works with ANY woman that loves her husband. Just do all you can outside the bedroom, to show her you not only love her, but that you value her too. Women are suckers for the right aphrodisiacs. The problem is that guys waste time and efforts on gifts, and dinners out. And, while they usually work somewhat, a wiser man knows that a wife responds better to picked up socks, a clean sink when she gets home from work, and the smell of a meatloaf, when she expected to order pizza. And of vital importance- put the damn seat down. A guy who does the stuff we all, men AND women, hate doing, shows his wife that he'd rather do it, than have her have to do it all. And THAT is guaranteed to turn a wife on.
2007-03-10 07:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can do a lot to improve things. Start with the fact that many women want and need romance not just a romp in the sack. That's why many women seek attentions of someone else. The little things are so important. Spending a long time with foreplay has more of an impact than anything else. Remember the object here is to make sure she is pleased completely. You concentrate more on her needs, wants, desires and fantasies than your own. And you don't stop pleasing her until she says she has had enough(most women do enjoy multiple orgasm), then concentrate on getting what you need. If you put her first each and every time she won't have any complaints. Tell her that you intend to peel her off the ceiling when you both get done. Don't forget to start out by bringing her flowers, putting on some good mood music, shut off the phones, get rid of the kids for a night (if you have any to tend to), and put a sign on the outside door, "Do not disturb". You don't need any distractions. Now get off the computer and get busy!
2007-03-10 06:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read the book "For you Both" by Lonnie Barbach. THE sex therapist in the country today. Cheap in paperback, and worth every dime.
2007-03-10 06:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are tons and tons of websites and books out there to teach technique. Try searching for "She Comes First" on amazon or half.com.
Best way would be to ASK her. Ask her what she wants, what she likes and doesn't like, what she'd like to try. Experiment and see what works.
2007-03-10 06:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by ~StepfordWife~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, the key here would be to ask HER, not here. She is the only one who knows what pleases her. I would say, bedroom aside, treat her like a queen, with respect and understanding, and the rest should sort its self out
2007-03-10 06:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by beebs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite me over
2007-03-10 06:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask her what she wants and give it to her. You will be satisifed when she is.
It works great.
2007-03-10 11:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by hotmomma4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to worry about her needs and not just yours make sure you pleasure her first.
2007-03-10 06:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by pittbull mommy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she likes and do it.
2007-03-10 09:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by Snobunny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she wants you to do
2007-03-10 06:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by dƒ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋