Help Me Please?

Question

I'm engadged, we both have a good finance, jobs, our own houses, ect.
We are both 21....its that a good age to get married....

Answer 1

There's no right or wrong age to get married - it all depends on the couple. People assume that if you marry young, it won't last, but that's not true. The divorce rate might be a little higher, but it can work. If you and your fiancee feel ready to marry, then go for it. Just sit down and talk it out, make sure you share your plans and dreams, and talk about the major decisions - kids, finances, lifestyle, spiritual beliefs, etc.
Just remember that at 21, you and your fiancee might still have some growing up to do. People change over the years (especially at that age). Make sure you're ready to grow TOGETHER, instead of apart.
The fact that you're asking this question makes me wonder if you're really sure that you want to get married, though. Remember, there's nothing wrong with a long engagement, either!!!

Answer 2

What matters is if you love each other, and are grown up. 21 is young, but not too young, for some.I would urge you to date for at least a year or so before making any decision concerning marriage, but if you've know each other for a while, and have dated for long enough to know each other; then go for it. But, wait until you've been married for a year, before you start a family.

Answer 3

Marriage ought to be entered into with real caution, consideration and planning..... you didn't say how long you have known him, and that, hon, is rather important. What you find acceptable and wonderful at 21 won't necessarily be the same at 25.... think about it.

Answer 4

it's an okay age to get married if you are in love and ready for the responsibility and commitment it takes to make a marriage work. marriage is for life, so be sure before you make the choice.

Answer 5

Yes, I think that is a really good age to get married. Are you starting to get cold feet? You'll be ok......best of luck to you.

Answer 6

yes