where is the understanding and the love
2007-03-10 06:04:54 · 10 answers · asked by nightman122554 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why are you clumping all women together? SOME NOT ALL women are like that, it's because they are delusional!
2007-03-10 06:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c of how we're taught & how we're made. It takes women a while to learn that just because we "see" something in someone, it doesn't give us the right to play Makeover with that person. Yet it's hard to not try to encourage the other to see what we see. Think about your mother (or the mother-figures in your life), there's a pattern.
Women, often get a vision or a dream before it's time for the manifestation. We're supposed to be loving and encouraging to the men in our lives, while learning how to be a woman. To be truly frank, it's a spirituality issue that few desire to actually acknowledge.
2007-03-10 06:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by 4everFaithful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women marry men expecting them to change, men marry women expecting they never will.
A lot of women will marry a man because they see his potential. But if a man is content with the way he is, he's not going to change. If he didn't do dishes or bring you flowers when you were dating, the wedding ceremony is NOT going to change that.
2007-03-10 06:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by ~StepfordWife~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would never try to change a guy. Unless it was for a health reason or something and then that's it. There personalty is what makes them them. I think it's stupid to try to change someone either u like them the way they are or u don't
2007-03-10 06:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women can be very insecure and have a fantasy of what a "perfect" man is. Learning to love, is learning to accept a person for who they are, not the altered version of what you want them to be. The cool thing about accepting a person like this, is you'll find that they have much to teach you, and much to learn from you.
2007-03-10 06:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
like, if his hair is greasy, and you ask him to WASH his hair, and he doesn't and we get mad?
cause frankly, its embarassing stuff like that. Have some hygiene.
Because girls are so caught up in looks and how they come off to people, they don't realise that the guys don't want to change it, whatever it may be.
I'm fine with the way my guy is. I wouldn't change anything about him.
2007-03-10 06:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The tendency is very real, but I don't know whether it's nature or nurture. You are correct, a loving woman will be loving in her attempt to improve her man, and if she's not loving about it well,......we know how that goes.
2007-03-10 06:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then they dont really love you im married and love my husband the way he is quarks and all no way would i change him so if some one really loves you they will love all of you not bits and pieces and try to change what they cannot
2007-03-10 06:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by Beth G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why but when they do change them they don't like him anymore .
2007-03-10 06:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont know
2007-03-10 06:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋