My boyfriend has a wife and 2 kids but he said he will dump her if I will merry him. Should I do it? I really luv him and we are accpecting our first child soon. I don't want to ruin his merriage but I don't want to be made fun of at school for having a child out of wed lock. What should I do?
2007-03-10 06:04:18 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
you should give yourself an at-home abortion with knitting needles, then go on the jinny jones show about it...
2007-03-10 06:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You're being a total Jerk!!! think about it!!
he's married (with an "a"). He's got kids.
you've already ruined his marriage when you started sleeping with him!
How'd you get all this past his wife?
how would she feel?
if you're still in school, you shouldn't be pregnant.
If you do marry him, you'll regret it throughout the rest of your relationship. No one likes the type of people who go around stealin' every one else's man. that's how my parents got divorced, and if i knew my dad's girlfriend, I'd kill her! (or at least break her neck so she'd be a veggie for the rest of her life.)
What about his kids? They're gonna grow up without a father. All because you and him thought you'd have a little one-night stand. Where you drunk when you met him!?! why would you even THINK about taking away his families lives?
Those type of ppl have a lot of names that would get me kicked out if i wrote down.
Don't do ANYTHING. stop calling him, seeing him, and having any contact with him, and let him an his wife go back to a normal life.
2007-03-10 06:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to a counselor or your parents if possible. You need to be speaking with someone about this. the most important thing is the future of your child and the other two children they come before your feelings for this guy. You CAN graduate and have a child it does work as far as the other kids you have more important and bigger dicisions to worry about what the other kids think. You soon will be a mother and not a child yourself anymore so sit down with someone you trust and talk to them about it, the sooner the better so you can plan out your future...... Good Luck =))
2007-03-10 06:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Happi @ss 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
So,you got knocked up by a married guy and you are still in school.I hope you realize he is never really going to leave his wife,men have affairs all the time.You are just the other woman(girl in your case)It is a rare occasion that a man like that actually keeps his word.You can't even spell correctly how are you going to raise a child?I hope you are proud of yourself!Does his wife know you are pregnant?She is probably gonna beat your *** when she finds out,I know I would and the husbands too!
2007-03-10 06:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all you need to learn how to spell the word marry before you think about marrying anyone . Second he's probably not going to leave his wife he just told you that . And third if your still in school and this dude has a wife and 2 kids you probably shouldnt be having sex with him let alone be accspecting a kid from him . And the people at school need to laugh at you if your to dumb to realize that this whole situation is just wrong .
2007-03-10 06:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by hollowaydn 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am of a house with a Dad who did that with the likes of someone like you. And I could say many unpleasant things right now. But, Hey, If you like being a person who relishes in the other womans unhappiness and hurting two other kids who, have no control over you stealing their daddy from their mommy. Go For it. You will have to deal with Peter at the pearly gates for you Adultery as well as Him for his Adultery.
2007-03-10 06:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you are still in school and pregnant with a married man's child, I think you have more to worry about than being made fun of. You are being foolish, he's not going to leave his wife and you will end up all alone with a child. Congratulations, you made the dumbest decision in your life!
2007-03-10 06:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Me, again 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, you shouldn't marry him because if he cheated on his wife, chances are he will cheat on you too when is married to you. Besides, you already messed up his marriage and I highly doubt he will leave his wife for you. Go to school and decide what you want in life. Secondly, you need to consider your child future like adoption or raising it yourself. You sound immature and insecure, get some life experience before getting married.
2007-03-10 06:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally I think you should go to school, get an education, then you might be able to ask questions without appearing like the north end of a south bound dog.
2007-03-10 06:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by Duh 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Congratulations! You just screwed your life over. Not only you has been taken by the oldest lie in the book ( the part that he was going to leave his wife for you) He probably is going to start denying your kid as soon as it's born. Welcome to real life!
2007-03-10 06:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by Sakura ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should look at the situation from his wife's point of view. Would you be okay with your husband leaving you and your children for someone else?
2007-03-10 06:09:42 · answer #11 · answered by icanhelp 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋