Ok so i have this friend that i met this year and she likes the same boy i do. So in December she told me she liked him and she told me if i like him and i said umm no. But i liked him since last year but i knew him for 4 years. So i told her this month i liked him too. I am a really shy person but like we dont talk a lot anymore. The boy that we both like doesn't even know her! Am i a good friend?
2007-03-10 06:03:18 · 9 answers · asked by . 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
uhh you're in the middle its not like your trying to steal him away either. But you need to tell her this the first time she asked you need to be brave and tell her what you really think the first time. What you should probably do is tell her since when did you like him and stuff but say that we can both hang out with him and see if he likes one of us. And let him chose if he just wants to be friends with both of you or if he likes one of you. Cuz u should'nt lose a friendship over a boy its dumb cuz boys come and go and friends stay.
2007-03-10 06:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny0305 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you repost this question? It is very hard to understand your grammer and punctuation. I gather you are wondering if you are a good friend for being in like with the same guy as your friend?! If that is the case, then I see no reason for you to be a bad friend. If you're asking if dating the guy you know your friend is in like with makes you a good friend or not, I would say that depends on your age. If you're between 8-14, no not a good friend if you're dating this guy. 15 and above, it doesn't really matter much.
2007-03-10 14:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by Noota Oolah 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you didnt do anything wrong to the girl the same thing happend in my class where one gurl liked the same guy as a diffrent girl everytime she like some one new at least that didnt happen to you you are a good friend for telling her how you feel
2007-03-10 17:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by living the life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are a good friend but you need to start speaking up for your self more that is how you miss out on a lot in life
2007-03-10 14:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by third times a charm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r a pretty good friend...... she shouldnt get mad just cause u like the same guy..... not like u asked him out...... but i would recommend trying not to like the same guy as ur friend...... trust me.... i have been there....
2007-03-10 14:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, youre a great friend
2007-03-10 14:18:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think you are a good friend.
2007-03-10 17:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you a good friend
2007-03-10 15:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by 789512 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but ur not a bad one either, introduce her to him.............................ull feel like a better friend, if either one of you gets him u should be happy :)
2007-03-10 14:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by luckylove713 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋