Please give your opinion about this issue.
2007-03-10 05:53:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES YOU WILL ENJOY THE LIFE WITH FAMILY.
2007-03-10 15:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a modern age. You can become a parent without getting married. I don't think they need to go together. I don't think marriage is for life. I think you can be married several times over and still have an incomplete life. Eat well, get enough sleep, don't smoke or drink, and stay fit. Find your social conscience and do things that people will talk about at your funeral. You'll have a complete life.
2007-03-10 14:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by Molly R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think marriage and children are a personal choice. For me, life would be incomplete without marriage and children. However, there are some people who shouldn't get married and there are definitely some who should not have children. I think it depends on the person.
2007-03-10 14:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as most have already said it is a matter for each of us to decide what our priorities are in our life.
It cannot be foretold with certainty what our future life will be like. If the present trend continues, in our old age, we would seem incomplete in the society with no one to call our own after we begin losing those who are our blood relations. Those issues that take most of our time and faculties in the youth will most probably no longer be needing our attention in our old age. Then we might find the day as aimless and unsatisfying. However there are many like our Indian President, Dr P Venugopal and Mr Vajpayee who all are unmarried and still have a lot to fill their days with.
2007-03-10 15:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by smartobees 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. The trick is to realize what a decision will bring. Lots of folks think a child would be just wonderful. Then they have one, and find, OMG this critter is not bonding, it is divisive.... I have gone from being a stud/babe to a dad/mom. This wasn't quite what I thought it was.
Look at all the questions in this section.... filled with people who thought a spouse and family was going to be just perfect, and found that, "Nope, I'd prefer to: 1. screw around 2. Not have these kids.. 3. not be partnered at all 4 in a trap of no training, and poor job skills,,, and the list goes on...."
2007-03-10 14:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, I don't believe that at all. Each person has their own idea on how to make there lives complete. Some people just don't want to be married and shouldn't be married. Others need to be married and have children. IT is up to the individual.
2007-03-10 13:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by goldensparkler61 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a personal decision. Some people just don't want to be married and have children...some people who marry just don't want to have children but there are others (like me) who really enjoyed being married and having a family.....even though my ex husband cheated on me and we are now divorced, I really enjoyed being married and having a family. I was just married to the wrong person.
2007-03-11 15:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by Spaceyangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't. Not everybody wants to get married or have kids, that doesn't mean that you can't live life to the fullest. You can accomplish whatever you want to. If you don't want to get married and have kids, then that's your decision. There are so many other things that can make life complete and memorable. Research, humanity services, etc. Hope that helps!
2007-03-10 14:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be for me, but not for others. I don't think everyone was meant to be married and have kids. It's a personal choice. I actually respect people that make a decision not to have kids. They usually have good reasons and it would be awful to have a kid or spouse if you didn't REALLY want them. I think being happy in life is about knowing yourself and what you want and making decisions based on that.
2007-03-10 14:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. To me it's incomplete. Aperson's life can be fulfilled only when she will have a husband as a life-partner & Kids to enjoy their life together by growing them up. That is life to me. But Life's definition can differ by people.
But yes, if you don't get a perfect life-partner it can be hell for you. Only if people could know who is better for whom?
2007-03-10 21:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by Sasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - Both are parts of life...
They are not NECESSARY but DESIRABLE..
So without them you are missing something.. making you incomplete in a way..
2007-03-10 16:40:33 · answer #11 · answered by saba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋