my best friend is being bot so bestfriendy?

Question

She seems to just be blowing me off a lot lately.
I mean this week we were talking about hanging out this weekend and how her sister got a hotel room and she was throughing a party. . .
so last night i called her and asked what was goin on, she was like i'll call you later and tell you the plans and such, and she never called but invited someone else, and then today i called and asked if she wanted to hang and she said that she already made plans

shes been doing this a lot lately

i'm starting to think shes not such a great friend. . . what should i do?

Answer 1

you are probably right. i would say that either you are prettier than her and a guy made a comment about you or that you wronged her in some way. give us more details.
bottom line: always move on. don't sulk. friends come and go...we live, we learn. she will either come back or stay gone. sit back and watch. be careful who you do pick as "best friends". she should now be placed in your acquaintance section.

Answer 2

She might just be trying to nicely let you down. Meaning, maybe she found other friends or feels that you guys shouldn't be best friends anymore.
You could talk to her about it and ask her to be honest with you if there is anything she wants to tell you. In the meantime, just hang out with other friends.

Answer 3

Wow! I've got a friend almost exactly like yours. It's a fact that not all people you hang alot with cares for you but in your case, maybe she's trying to test if you care when she's not that friendly to you? Try to make new friends but don't lose the old. Good luck! (:

Answer 4

Let her come to you when she's ready. If she doesn't, you'll know you've been blown off, or "let down nice". Make plans with other friends to keep your sanity.