men point of view or woman who knows all about men?

Question

this is my 3 relatioship and evertime Im in one. the guys im with the will mantion the girlfriends in the way to make me mad or jelouse. Keep in mind I'm very independ, loyat and carring when im in the invove with someone I really care for them. so hearing about the ex is not what i usually looking forward. my current boyfriend checks out girls all the time when we are out together or come and tell me who he check out when he was out alone. I dont understand why. because my job invove hot guy, beautiful guys. but evertime I see a hot guy all ithink ohhh that jeans will good on my baby or where did he get that shirt i will like to get for my boyfriend. by the way that beautiful people job is modeling. my friend said that my boyfriend is inscure and he doesnt to make me jelouse but he said he have done the same to his past relationship. so Im look for men point of view or a woman who have experience the same things thank you.

Answer 1

You need a spelling class its too hard to read your chop shop writing. relationship....jealous.

Answer 2

Insecurity is at your end too for writing. Also, because he is checking out the field and telling you about it when you are not there, if partial insecurity on his part.
I see no need to bring up the past relationships, for if you have many it shows you(the individual) is not wanted by those people so you must have a fault.
What he said he has done and what he actually did could be 2 different things.
And we are not talking about the past. So can you two not learn to think in the present.?

Answer 3

Most men are alive not dead, they can't help looking at other women. Its just their nature. I look at other men but I don't wan't them I just enjoying the view. If it bothers you tell him you don't mind him looking but does he have to be so obvious. As for talking about x's, sometimes its good to listen about the x just so you know what all the things the x did to bother your boyfriend. That way you get to know what upsets him. or pleases him. Maybe he just needs to talk about the x to get her out of his head and he trusts you the most so maybe you are the only one he is comfortable with to talk to. Take care Heather

Answer 4

First of all, men will always look. I have yet to meet a man who didn't look. However, most men will try to be discreet. I know about my husband's ex's, but he doesn't discuss them all the time. If he is hurting your feelings you should let him know. Maybe he doesn't know that it bothers you. Also, try not to be too jealous, you know he has dated others in the past.

Answer 5

sounds like u need to start shopping someplace else and here's a big eye opener there is no man or woman who knows everything about a woman or a man thats what makes it so interesting to find out about each other no two are alike anywhere

Answer 6

A gentleman does not check out other women in the pressence of his girlfriend / wife, nor does he discuss previous relationships. This guy is not good enough for you and you should find someone else. good luck.

Answer 7

he's not the man for you. if he loves you he wont even look at other girls even though how beautiful they are. he should have his eyes only for you. if you feel insecure in this relationship, better call it off. you deserve better. goodluck!

Answer 8

you've been dating the wrong guys....if he really likes you he should trust you and not worry...or maybe the things you do cause him to feel that hes insecure...talk to each other about....if he really is like that....then hes like that...you cant change a man....

Answer 9

woow im still bored