would you tell this someone??? I don't know the someone to talk to, but know who she is, but I know the cad...and i know what lies he tells to get his own way!!!
Do you think I should leave it and mind my own or should i tell her??
2007-03-10 05:08:55 · 15 answers · asked by prettywoman 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Big C ...you have a point!!
2007-03-10 05:14:50 · update #1
but that's not really the problem!
2007-03-10 05:15:26 · update #2
MYOB
He may not behave that way with her. And no one likes to hear that kind of message.
2007-03-10 05:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you I'd steer clear, you'll probably just be told that you're interfering and she won't believe you.
I had a friend all the way through school, we were close, her brother dated my sister for 7 years so we were really close. Anyway when we left school we both go boyfriends which came between us, I stayed with mine for 18 months before escaping but she carried on seeing her fella. Anyway I found out that he was cheating on her regularly (I mean the muppet actually told me and asked to me to help him!!). I tried to tell her twice and she wouldn't have any of it. He told me that no matter what I knew and told her she'd never believe me and he was right. In the end it was too annoying to stay friends with her.
Last I heard she was still seeing him, they must have been seeing each other for around 7 years now and I guess she's still as clueless.
Some women are too scared to be on their own so blindly ignore what's staring them in the face.
Trust me it's not worth it especially when you don't know the person.
2007-03-10 07:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Bugs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on who the cad is. If he is your ex, maybe in the back of your mind, you feel he is treating her the way he treated you? And that may or may not be the case. If you just know him, do you really truly know he is treating her bad? If you don't know for sure, I wouldn't butt into the situation. If you do, you can talk to the girl, but she may not care about your opinion if she is into him. She may have to find out for herself.
2007-03-10 05:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just love the fact that someone still uses the word "cad"! Fantastic!!
2007-03-10 05:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by amethyst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you have a word with the cad? Perhaps better that way as you know him but not her...
2007-03-10 05:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to the cad you know and WARN him to knock
it off!! If he doesn't, then politely introduce yourself to the
woman. Carefully explain to her what this cad is doing and try
to provide evidence or proof of what you say. Convince her
that your only concern is her welfare, and that you don't have
an axe to grind.
2007-03-10 05:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you really know this girl,she probably would not believe you over her boyfriend anyway.
So I would say try to move on and let it go.
What goes around comes around,so he will get caught out in the end.
Different matter if she was a friend of yours!.
2007-03-10 05:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by Honeygo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont think she would appreciate it and possibly she would not believe you either as you dont know her. Best just to leave her to it. Unfortunately you cant protect everyone in the world. And who knows, perhaps shes the one who will put him on the straight and narrow.
2007-03-10 07:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell them, but that doesn't mean they'll listen to you. You might try writing her an anonymous letter if she doesn't know you. Or, try to become her friend and then let her know. Good luck. People tend to not see what they don't want to.
2007-03-10 05:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would see if she knows she is being strung along because you never know what's going with her. there may be a reason why she is letting it happens.
2007-03-10 05:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by never give up 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋