To give an example of how lazy she is: I called her the other day at her work, I couldn't find the remote that "SHE LOST" and they told me she was too busy to come to the phone unless it was an emergency. I am totally addicted to 3 different TV shows...I hate changing the TV without the remote...she didn't give a damn. She knows I like my dinner at 6 pm...not start at 6 pm..I'm talking on the table, she gets home at 6:21 at pretends there is nothing wrong..NO big deal to her!!! NOW, here I am eating at 6:55 pm, I like to have eaten and getting ready for Idol but it didn't happen. The laundry has not been as pristine in the past 3 WEEKS either!! Her cooks is sliding down hill as well, I called my mom the other day and she came over and couldn't believe what was going on, so she had to rearrange the kitchen the right way and cooked dinner the RIGHT way for once, GUESS WHAT.. my wife was angry at ME!! OH, she has also put on 6 lbs in 6 Months...
Any suggestions here????
2007-03-10 04:57:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Too funny.
2007-03-10 05:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by DoubleD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, this sounds like a fake question because there cant really be a guy out there as ignorant and selfish as you out there.But if it is true than I say you are a jerk! First off why don't you get up off your butt and make your own dinner if you have to eat at a set time.Your wife is supposed to be your partner and friend, not your maid and cook.I bet she has gained some weight because she is not happy with her jerk husband so eats to get satisfaction.Besides that what is 6 lbs?? Big deal!!
Why don't you move back in with momma you spoiled brat and then momma can wipe your butt for you and your wife can go find a real man!!
2007-03-10 05:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that is REALLY wrong with this marriage is your attitude towards her! I suggest you help her with the laundry and the cooking, and any other household chore. You should love your wife as she is for whom she is, and refrain from trying to make her out into something she isn't going to pretend to be just to satisfy you. What you need to work on is being a better husband to her. And lastly, you should be thankful you have her in your life.
2007-03-11 01:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. first off let your mom go, the life yall had, the kitchen been arranged her way thats over.!!.. it's your wife's kitchen now and things are gonna be put HER RIGHT WAY....
second dude your wife was at work making money and your crying cause she couldnt tell you were the remote was...
third the weight gain is probably from over controlling husband....
fourth your at home hanging out your wife is at work, running errands what ever.... you want dinner right at 6.. why don't you start it...
I know different strokes for different folks maybe your wife, likes being your baby sitter why dont you tell her she's slippling she may not have noticed
2007-03-10 05:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by march2283 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why, this is an emergency situation! You must immediately bring in all of your most demanding and selfish male relatives to join you in an in-house protest insisting that she do a much, much better job of taking care of all of you.
Oh, and remember to remove anything too sharp that she might get her hands on while she's whipping up a gourmet dinner after a hard days' work because we females sometimes get ideas about doing bad, bad things to men with those knives...
2007-03-10 05:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is what happens with marriage. Mothers just don't train their daughters correctly anymore. It is an example of the old bait and switch trick. Let me guess when you were dating she treated you like a king but after about a year of marriage this stuff happens. Divorce is always an option. Next time don't marry the woman just keep her as a live in and when she starts sliding kick her but out and move in a new one.
2007-03-10 05:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by Shane H 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dis is why wen i have a son i will make sure he works as hard as my daughter. da problem today is that men expect so much nd dont realize how much we have to do. try a day in our shoes. i think u shud first confront ur wife nd tell her instead of bein a momma's boy nd clalin ur mom. see wht ur wife gotta say..i'd b mad too if i wuz ur wife. whts wrong if she gains weight? wow one pound a month...calm down..u gain weight too u married her for da way she is not how she looks. its call changes...soemthing u gotta learn. ur wife cant do everything..dis is why god gave us hands..if she lost da remote den buy a new one..ur actin like ur a 10yr old buh u gotta learn to b on ur own...u probably get mad readin this buh its prob da truth u dont wanna hear. if ur wife still doesnt care den tell her da relationship cant work out nd deal with it from there.
2007-03-10 05:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by Sanita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your living in a FOOLS world thinking that i am going to fall for this stupid question. My suggestion is to get a real life and ask some serious questions. You asked for the opinion- this is mine
2007-03-10 05:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...LIVE ALONE OR WITH YOUR MOTHER! Divorce your wife, put her out of the hell she's living, and don't EVER, EVER marry again! It is apparent that YOU are the only person who can live up to your standards and controls...so do the rest of the world a favor and live alone!
2007-03-10 05:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by N0_white_flag 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're self-centred and controlling, and if I were your wife (which thank God I'm not) I wouldn't be catering to your every whim either.
Get a life and grow up.
2007-03-10 05:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you have not much time for her.
Goo to holiday with her.
If she stay at home all day what she will do:
to watch TV and to eat.
She is not maid.
2007-03-10 05:04:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋