Im a lesbian and I cant understand why people say that all gay people will go to hell....but for what reason??
Couldnt be because im happy ..or i love someone....will you go to hell if you hate me??
2007-03-10 04:47:40 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
its not that i cant handle being a lesbian...i just dont understand their way of thinking
2007-03-10 04:59:25 · update #1
There is no hell, sweetie. Don't sweat the ignorant bigots and bible thumpers.
I am so pleased to see that you got mostly positive answers. It makes my heart sing.I
2007-03-10 04:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who is this woman? If she is a famous person you may be infatuated with her and the life she lives? You may be attracted to the glamor and the appeal but nothing more. You may just be attracted to her surface. Women are very beautiful creatures so it's easy to develop feelings for another woman. Now that's not to say that makes you a lesbian by any means. However, if you are fantasizing about this woman and you want to be with her (assuming she is not famous and it would be feasible) maybe you should try hooking up with her. Try being with another woman and see how you feel. If you like it then it may be something you'll want to explore further. If you don't like it then at least you'll know that men are for you. I say do a little experimenting, don't jump to conclusions, and take it slow just like you would with a man.
2016-03-28 23:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That whole going to hell thing is an antiquated scare tactic to bring in the poor and destitute seeking refuge from the Lords of the Dark Ages.
The problem is, allot of people today still are in that mind frame. Not much has changed since the 12th century has it
(current technology aside, this was strictly a "religious answer to a religious question)
2007-03-13 21:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by graycherubs3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what people say, they are just insecure with who they are and feel they have to cut everyone down. What kind of God would send a person to hell for following their heart and being with the person they love? According to the logic of a good percentage of Christians, homosexual people are categorized with rapists and murderers and pedophiles, etc. which makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. Murder someone, go to hell, be with the person you love and go to hell? I'm not buying it. Don't worry about the people who are so busy interpreting the bible how they see fit that they miss the things that are spelled out in a very straightforward way (judging others, wrath, hate, etc). Good luck.
2007-03-10 16:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Am I going to hell for loving another woman?? "
No. And no one in the history of the World has gone to hell FOR loving a woman.
"Im a lesbian and I cant understand why people say that all gay people will go to hell....but for what reason??"
I'm a Bisexual Christian and I can tell you that it's because those that preach the message of condemnation are poorly taught. They are not taught what a Christian ought to learn.
"Couldnt be because im happy ..or i love someone....will you go to hell if you hate me??"
No.
2007-03-10 05:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No one can shape your destiny from their emotions of hate,only their own,and no you will not go to hell.Anybody can say what ever they want about gays and gay marriages but Thank God it's not their decision to make and in the ultimate end of it all they will see it never really mattered in the first place.God doesn't care one way or the other about your sexual preference he only cares that you experience who you are.Betrayal of yourself is still betrayal nonetheless,and the highest betrayal of all.So don't worry to much about where you will be going when you pass away,live in the moment.And no they will not go to hell either they will just experience what it's like to be judged for something that they are.Godly revenge is sweet,is it not?
2007-03-10 06:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by Sidetracked0260 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it has alot to do with upbringing and location.People just get so set in their ways and its hard to undo what they grew up believeing.Everyone at some point has something they dont understand and not understanding can be very scary at times.Look at how long it took blacks and women to gain rights.And yet still today things are still in the works.I dont think it matters who or what you are someone out there thinks you are gonna go to hell for something.
2007-03-10 05:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't send you to hell for something you really can't help. it's love after all and He is loving. Well, you are aware it's wrong but I say make the most out of it. outweigh the wrong with the good you can do as a lesbian. see you in heaven.:)
2007-03-10 05:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by <Xariel the Stray> 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you wouldnt go to hell for being a lesbian. It mostly would depend on your religion if ur going to heaven or hell. People would say that to you because they are either disgusted by it or they just done want people in their communtity being lesbian, so they tell you that to make you more like them. They just dont want you to be lesbian. Its your choice and your life, make it worth while. Just do what makes you happy.
2007-03-10 04:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Figure_Skater 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Going to hell is everyone's initial destination. The only thing that changes your destination is accepting and building a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. It's not about what sins you do or don't committ. It's just about Jesus. When that happens, He'll lead you through different processes to weed out any sin that is in your life. It's not about becoming perfect overnight, it's about entering into a journey. I have no regrets. I used to be gay myself, and over an 8 yr process, Jesus brought me out of that way of thinking and feeling. I don't hate you, I understand you. I would not demand you to stop feeling, I know that is impossible. But I do know that Jesus loves you and wants you to get to know Him. I say let Him deal with you as He deems necessary.
2007-03-10 04:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only God can answer that question.side note I don't hate any gays or lesbians and many Christian love them. Nothing wrong with loving someone else but to have sexual intercourse with the same sex is not healthy. Unfortunately many of these same sex arrangements don't last. Most find hurt down this road. The only way you can be saved and not go to hell is to have a personal relationship with God ( your maker)
2007-03-10 05:08:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋