My friend is really getting on my nerves and I don't really want to be her friend anymore...she is constantly calling me and my other friends spoiled brats, and she is extremely self righteous! she acts like she knows everything and if you express your opinion, she calls you dumb and says you're wrong. I've tried to see the good in her, but as a cynical perso that has been VERY hard. And I know that she's not going to change... What do I do?
2007-03-10 04:40:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stop calling her and stop taking her calls. Sometimes no words are better, it gets the point across and actions speak louder. Who cares if she gets mad about it, you dont like her anyway.
2007-03-10 04:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling her
When she calls you either let the phone go to voice mail or pick up, talk a few minutes and then tell her you have to go
When you talk to her and she suggests things to do tell her you aren't interested.
When you see her on the street be cordial but do not accept plans to get together.
Now if she asks you if you are avoiding her then tell her
frame it like "Well, I have always enjoyed your friendship but lately.. I find your actions to be......"
If she gets mad hey...she asked.
If she cares for your friendship she will try and change her behavior as it impacts you. If not, then once again avoid her.
2007-03-10 05:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by creole lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her out every time she makes a hatefull comment . Ask her why if she doesn't like you or your ways then why does she hang out with you?I would also just start walking away from her when she says these hatefull things, after saying "I can't beieve you said that, that was so rude!' watch how she re-acts
2007-03-10 05:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by MARIA H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend for 12 yrs. and decided , I was done. She'd do the same dumb things over and over. I told her. We had different paths and I couldn't be friends . I haven't talk since then. A year and half. I don't even miss her. I heard she miss me. Well , GOD BLESS
2007-03-10 04:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by TCC Revolution 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel and be direct about it. Then maybe she will get the hint and change her ways. If she doesn't then, you need to tell her that she is really becoming a pain and you want a "divorce." :)
2007-03-10 04:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by smilingblonde85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP contact with her. If she is as you describe her she won't be crawling back to you.
If she does (which is probably not giong to happen) then maybe u taught her a lesson and she change.
2007-03-10 04:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with your group of friends and when she starts being annoying just say "Go away, noone likes you, you have no friends. Come back when you find a life."
It's harsh but it'll work.
2007-03-10 05:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by king cody 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u shuld beter ignore her. don't even see her just don't even listen her n when she calls u give her certain (bhane). more over give back ans. spend more time with others n atlast break the frienship .
2007-03-10 04:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by SHREYA K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't want to be friends because you don't have the time or energy for her drama.
2007-03-10 04:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore. if that doesnt work tell her you cant continue to be around negative people because it brings you down.
2007-03-10 04:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋